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The 50 Greatest Romantic Movies of All Time

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It’s the closest thing there is to a universal genre. That’s because, with rare exceptions, everyone falls in love, or at least wants to. And when you think about it, almost every movie is a love story. Thrillers, comedies, sci-fi — no matter what the form, the spectacle of two people falling in love in the middle of it has always been what makes the world of movies go round. That’s why choosing the greatest movie love stories presents a special challenge. Because really, what isn’t a contender? In a way, though, we kept our criteria simple. We were looking for grand passion, for chemistry and heat and all that good stuff. Yet there’s an ineffable quality that elevates a truly great movie romance. Let’s call it the Swoon Factor. It’s about the swoon that happens onscreen; it’s about the swoon that happens between the audience and the screen. What follows are the 50 films that, more than any others, got our hearts racing.     

Dirty Dancing (1987)

Dirty Dancing

Set in 1963 but oh-so-’80s in its idea of hairstyles and heartthrobs, this sexy summer-camp romance defied its critics to become a classic. Nicknaming Jennifer Grey’s character “Baby” went a long way to illustrate what’s really going on here: The teenage daughter of conservative Jewish parents is forever being infantilized by her folks, until she meets a slightly older — but undeniably adult — dance teacher (Patrick Swayze) who shows her the time of her life. Corrupted by rock ’n’ roll, Baby grows up fast, getting over her initial shyness (“I carried a watermelon”) while rehearsing with her seductive instructor, who practices a racy new style of close-contact, ultra-suggestive moves that can only be read as carnal. Like “Rebel Without a Cause” and “Grease” before it, the movie plays on the fantasy of an off-limits attraction between Baby and the bad boy. — Peter Debruge

Trouble in Paradise (1932)

Trouble in Paradise

In this gold-standard screwball caper comedy, a gentleman thief, a lady pickpocket and a Parisian heiress form an elegant triangle, the preferred shape of Ernst Lubitsch — that sublime architect of romantic instability — who loved to test how seemingly solid couples might respond to a good romantic upset. Here, the temptation isn’t merely sentimental, as there’s a potential fortune on the line. What’s more, Gaston Monescu (Herbert Marshall) and Lily (Miriam Hopkins) make clear from the moment they meet that each is perfectly capable of robbing the other blind. She boosts his wallet, he knicks her garter (we needn’t see the deed to be scandalized). The movie came out before the Production Code, and it sparkles with the kind of naughty innuendo that was soon prohibited in Hollywood, but which Lubitsch was sophisticated enough to suggest even behind closed doors. — PD

Splash (1984)

SPLASH, Daryl Hannah, Tom Hanks, 1984. (c) Buena Vista Pictures/ Courtesy: Everett Collection.

A man falls in love with a mermaid: What could be simpler, or sweeter, than that? Yet Tom Hanks, in the movie that made him a movie star, does not go lightly into his communion with a woman who’s half-fish. Ron Howard’s landmark comedy was one of the first films to demonstrate that a high-concept premise could be executed in a way that was artful and classic: a throwback to the Hollywood that used fantasy to put us in touch with reality. Daryl Hannah, as Madison the red-tailed mermaid, acts with a dazed curiosity and eagerness that’s irresistible, and Hanks turns his disgruntlement into a profound expression of love’s challenge – namely, that we can’t choose who we love, but we can choose to embrace the love that chose us. — Owen Gleiberman

The Bridges of Madison County (1995)

THE BRIDGES OF MADISON COUNTY, from left: Meryl Streep, Clint Eastwood, 1995. ©Warner Brothers/courtesy Everett Collection

Amid a career of macho performances, Clint Eastwood tapped into his sensitive side to deliver one of his most indelible characters in Robert Kincaid, a National Geographic photographer on assignment in Iowa, who stops by a farmhouse to ask for directions. He’s greeted by Francesca, a lonely war bride who offers to show him around (an Italian-accented Meryl Streep, who says so much in her silent gestures, like the way she absentmindedly touches herself in the places she wants to be caressed). It’s no big surprise that this dissatisfied housewife develops feelings for this stranger. More touching is Kincaid’s admission that he’s fallen for Francesca, too, but knows she has no intention of leaving her family. Still, that doesn’t stop him from trying. “This kind of certainty comes but just once in a lifetime,” he tells her. The sight of Kincaid looking desperate in the rain, the downpour likely masking tears, is so radically counter-Eastwood, you’ve gotta believe it. — PD

The Notebook (2004)

THE NOTEBOOK, Rachel McAdams, Ryan Gosling, 2004, (c) New Line/courtesy Everett Collection

In the two decades since “The Notebook,” Ryan Gosling has cultivated his image as a chiseled heartthrob to such a degree that he seemed the perfect choice to play a live-action Ken doll in the “Barbie” movie. But back when director Nick Cassavetes was casting the role of Noah Calhoun, he saw the actor (and former Mouseketeer) differently — as someone both relatable and reckless enough to chase his dream girl (Rachel McAdams’ Allie) up a Ferris wheel. No matter what Allie does, he keeps on loving her in the best possible version Hollywood can make of a Nicholas Sparks novel. The secret formula here comes in catching up with Noah and Allie half a century later, as played by screen legends James Garner and Gena Rowlands, coupled with the tear-jerky reason we’ve been reliving all their most romantic memories. — PD

All That Heaven Allows (1955)

ALL THAT HEAVEN ALLOWS, from left: Rock Hudson, Jane Wyman, 1955

The colors gush in Douglas Sirk’s lush 1950s melodrama, about a New England widow, Cary (Jane Wyman), who falls for the studly but respectful hunk (Rock Hudson) who tends the trees at her house. It may be love, but her two grown children — and nearly the entire community — are disapproving of Cary’s feelings, pressuring her to break off the relationship. Seen today, neither the age difference nor the class divide seem like deal-breakers, which makes Cary’s sacrifice seem all the more futile. (Years later, Todd Haynes updated the dynamic with a Black gardener and a still-living gay husband in “Far from Heaven.”) During the 1950s, Hudson carved out a niche as a sensitive leading man, to the point that he’s almost pathetic here (consider the state of him in the final scene). Others may try to meddle, but in the end, it’s her decision alone whom she loves. — PD

The Sound of Music (1965)

THE SOUND OF MUSIC, from left: Julie Andrews, Christopher Plummer,  1965. TM & Copyright ©20th Century Fox Film Corp. All rights reserved/courtesy Everett Collection

You might ask: How romantic could a musical this notoriously G-rated and squeaky-clean really be? But if “The Sound of Music” has incandescent songs, as well as a singular true-life story about the Von Trapp Family Singers (seven motherless Austrian children returned to vitality through the life force of Julie Andrews’ nun-turned-governess Maria), the movie’s secret weapon is its love story. Andrews, while she’s certainly playing the soul of goodness, invests her slow-blooming affection for Christopher Plummer’s Capt. Von Trapp with an almost forbidden sense of broken decorum. And Plummer, who looks like he belongs in a far darker movie, plays the captain as a lost man literally coming back to existence. When these two dance and realize, at the very same moment, that they’ve fallen in love, it’s one of the most electrifying scenes in movie history. — OG

Once (2007)

ONCE, Marketa Irglova, Glen Hansard, 2006. TM and ©Copyright Fox Searchlight Pictures. All rights reserved./Courtesy Everett Collection

It’s not unusual to see a musical scale the heights of romantic passion. What’s different about John Carney’s film is that it’s a small-scale, non-stylized, kitchen-sink indie drama, yet in its lo-fi and platonic way it uses songs to create the majesty and devotion of a musical daydream. On the sidewalks of Dublin, a 30ish busker (Glenn Hansard) strums a guitar with a worn-out hole where the pick board should be. Most folks pass him by, but a girl (Markéte Irglová) lingers. They’re drawn into each other’s orbit, and though we never learn their names, a romance — or is it? — begins to play out in the songs they sing together. They both have other relationships, yet ”Once” tells the delicate tale of how, through song, these two save each other. As they give themselves over to numbers like “When Your Mind’s Made Up,” the movie swoons, and you will too. — OG

Pretty Woman (1990)

PRETTY WOMAN, Julia Roberts, Richard Gere, 1990, (c) Buena Vista/courtesy Everett Collection

Some think of it as the ultimate guilty-pleasure rom-com. Others say that its story of a wealthy businessman (Richard Gere) who hires an escort (Julia Roberts) for a week to be his public romantic partner represents Hollywood at it most reprehensibly sexist. The truth, however, falls right in between. “Pretty Woman” only got tagged with the guilty-pleasure label because it came out at the dawn of the modern rom-com era (it sparkles like Tracy and Hepburn next to a lot of the films that came afterward). And as far as morality goes, it’s not the movie that’s sexist. It’s the world of high-gloss commodification that Vivian, played by Roberts not just with the boldest smile of her era but with the vivacity that turned her into a singular movie star, must navigate. Look closely at the dance of chemistry and arbitration between Roberts and Gere, and you’ll see that “Pretty Woman,” in its slickly-packaged-by-director-Garry Marshall way, is nothing less than a screwball celebration of the politics of love. — OG

Mississippi Masala (1991)

MISSISSIPPI MASALA, Denzel Washington, Sarita Choudhury, 1991

Mira Nair took a pioneering risk in depicting the romance between Demetrius (Denzel Washington), a blue-collar Black carpet cleaner, and Mina (Sarita Choudhury), a young Indian woman whose family fled Uganda to the American South. Set in Greenwood, Miss., where locals helped the creative team finesse the authenticity of the movie’s dialogue and detail, Nair’s contemporary interracial romance confronts the pushback of both the African American and South Asian communities to Demetrius and Mina’s relationship. But unlike Sidney Poitier social drama “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner,” her parents’ reaction makes up just a fraction of the script, which gives complex backstories to each side of the couple. It’s also incredibly sexy, whether they’re chatting by phone in separate beds or sharing the same one in the movie’s scorching love scene. The movie argues for colorblindness while celebrating both cultures, modeling a relationship never before seen on screen. — PD

Say Anything (1989)

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“Optimism is a revolutionary act,” writer-director Cameron Crowe quips in the commentary for his late-’80s teenage touchstone. That kind of radical confidence drives high school senior Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack), who musters the nerve to ask out valedictorian Diane Court (Ione Skye), even though all his peers think she’s out of his league. At first, Lloyd may seem like a nobody when compared to his most-likely-to-succeed sweetheart, but over time, he proves to be loyal, decent and unflappably sincere — qualities that made him the model boyfriend for kids of the ’80s. The clincher: Even when dumped, he shows up with a boombox, blasting Peter Gabriel’s “In Your Eyes” outside her window. The gesture became an iconic declaration of love for a generation … and still holds up, even if the technology is obsolete. — PD

The Way We Were (1973)

THE WAY WE WERE, Robert Redford, Barbra Streisand, 1973

Today, it would probably be a rom-com about opposites attracting: Katie (Barbra Streisand), a wisecracking Marxist Jewish political activist, and Hubbell (Robert Redford), a debonair WASP writer born with the entitlement not to have to worry about “causes.” But 50 years ago, when the story was filmed by director Sydney Pollack not as a comedy but as a romantic drama of tumultuous love-hate passion, the film, in its high-end soap-opera way, seemed to be expressing something new in the culture — the way that love, after the 1960s, was no longer going to be asking people to stay in their ethnic lanes. “The Way We Were” is a hefty slice of middlebrow Hollywood corn, yet the irresistible tug of it is that Streisand and Redford embody their characters on a level of romantic mythology. And let’s not forget the power of that title song! As sung by Streisand, it’s the incarnation of nostalgic beauty. — OG

Carol (2015)

CAROL, from left: Rooney Mara, Cate Blanchett, 2015. ph: Wilson Webb/©Weinstein Company/Courtesy Everett Collection

Movies that involve romantic stories of same-sex couples are inevitably placed in a category called “gay” or “queer” or whatever, often by their biggest fans. Yet if you think about it for five seconds, that’s a retrograde way of putting movies into boxes. The director Todd Haynes has made several masterpieces (“Far From Heaven,” “Superstar: The Karen Carpenter Story”), but he has never made a drama more darkly romantic and enticing, more seductive in its suspense, more mired in the agonizing compulsion of love than this lavishly mesmerizing adaptation of Patricia Highsmith’s 1952 novel “The Price of Salt.” During the Christmas shopping season, Therese (Rooney Mara), a New York department-store clerk, meets Carol, a woman of the world played by Cate Blanchett with a femme fatale swagger just this side of threatening. Their relationship will be fraught with the drama of divorce, blackmail, a private detective, and other elements that, as staged by Haynes, acquire the heightened quality of a vintage film noir. The final scene, set in the bar of the Oak Room, features one of the most transporting locked-gazes-across-a-crowded-room moments you’ll ever see. — OG

The Bodyguard (1992)

THE BODYGUARD, Whitney Houston, Kevin Costner, 1992, (c) Warner Brothers/courtesy Everett Collection

Is there anything more romantic than someone jumping in front of a bullet for you? Technically, that’s Frank Farmer’s job, but by the time Kevin Costner’s clean-cut, ex-Secret Service agent leaps in to protect endangered diva Rachel Marron (Whitney Houston) — on Oscar night, no less — we know he’s acting out of love more than duty. Frank sweeps both audiences and Rachel off their feet much earlier in the film, during a concert meltdown where he lifts her up and carries her through the mob — a chivalrous image immortalized on the film’s poster. Amazingly enough, “The Bodyguard” never made a big deal of its interracial romance, and that itself was a big deal. Powered by one of the all-time great soundtracks, the pop blockbuster is a classy entry in the oft-smarmy category of R-rated ’90s thrillers. Recent talks of a remake raise the question of which couple could out-sizzle Costner and Houston. — PD

Sunrise: A Song of Two Humans (1927)

SUNRISE, (aka SUNRISE: A SONG OF TWO HUMANS), from left, George O'Brien, Janet Gaynor, 1927, TM and Copyright ©20th Century Fox Film Corp. All rights reserved//courtesy Everett Collection

Marriage, they say, has its ups and downs. But it’s doubtful that any movie has ever dramatized the ebb and flow of feeling in a relationship with the primal power of F.W. Murnau’s silent classic. In outline, it could almost be a murderous film noir: A man — known only as The Man (George O’Brien), and haunted by better times with his wife, known only as The Wife (Janet Gaynor) — leaves the farmhouse where they live with their child to be with a woman from the city (Margaret Livingston). She wants him to drown The Wife, and part of the film’s shock is that he nearly does. But “Sunrise” proceeds as a series of shocks, which have the effect of jolting love back to life. Shot as a kind of sensuous living daydream, it is the cinema’s most profound and stirring roller-coaster of passion, an affirmation of what it means for two people to be meant for each other. — OG

The Princess Bride (1987)

THE PRINCESS BRIDE, Cary Elwes, Robin Wright, 1987, TM and Copyright (c) 20th Century-Fox Film Corp.  All Rights Reserved

Presented as a beloved fairy tale passed down between generations, screenwriter William Goldman’s tongue-in-cheek riff on classic adventure tales takes the best parts of nearly a century of cinematic love stories and remixes them for the home-video set (the goal was to get through to media-savvy audiences who thought they’d seen it all). Starting with two impossibly beautiful leads in Cary Elwes and Robin Wright, he builds a legend of swashbuckling pirates, dangerous rescues and well-earned revenge, describing it all (via kindly narrator Peter Falk) as the ultimate example of the form. That’s an impossible tall order — a genre-straddling smorgasbord the studio didn’t know how to market at the time — which director Rob Reiner miraculously achieves by enlisting an astonishing ensemble. Everyone from Billy Crystal to Christopher Guest, Wallace Shawn to Andre the Giant assemble to support the sacrifice Westley makes to save his beloved Buttercup from marrying the wrong guy. — PD

Past Lives (2023)

PAST LIVES, from left: Teo YOO, Greta Lee, John Magro, 2023. © A24 / Courtesy Everett Collection

Two men and a woman sit at a bar, and before the audience knows anything about them, we try to figure out what their relationship is. Who belongs with whom? That we can’t entirely tell is key to what makes Celine Song’s remarkable drama such a haunting fable of love’s enigma. It turns out that Nora (Greta Lee), a New Yorker born and raised until the age of 12 in South Korea, is married to Arthur (John Magaro), a mouthy homegrown American she met at a writers’ retreat. The other man, Hae Sung (Teo Yoo), is the childhood friend Nora has maintained ties with; he’s at once her past, the spirit of her homeland, and maybe her romantic partner in another avenue of existence. “Past Lives” is a movie that will strike chords of recognition in any true romantic, as it’s about the secret journey that love takes: a communion that may occur in this life, or that may just be waiting for the next one. — OG

Beauty and the Beast (1946)

BEAUTY AND THE BEAST, (aka LA BELLE ET LA BETE), from left, Josette Day, Jean Marais, 1946

It’s one of the most poetic distillations of romantic desire in all of movies; you could also call it the “Splash” of its day. Jean Marais plays the Beast, who in Jean Cocteau’s film is a kind of delicate aristocrat with the face of a courtly lion. Josette Day is Belle, who ends up imprisoned in the Beast’s castle to work off a debt accrued by her father. What follows is an intricate fairy tale of deception and magic, built around the luminous ingenuity of Cocteau’s visual effects. Yet the most magical thing about it is the bond that develops between Belle and her disarmingly chivalrous captor/lover, a character so touching in his passion that when Greta Garbo saw the movie, it’s reported that she reacted to his death at the end by crying out, “Give me back my Beast!” — OG

Love & Basketball (2000)

LOVE AND BASKETBALL, Omar Epps, Sanaa Lathan, 2000, (c)New Line Cinema/courtesy Everett Collection

The title of this Y2K sports classic references two very different games, and the rules aren’t fair in either one. After discovering that they both love basketball, Monica cockily challenges childhood friend Quincy to a match (later, famously, she’ll play for his heart). Monica wins that first bout, but he winds up injuring her — an early sign that the dynamic is different when two sexes occupy the court at the same time. That gap widens as they grow up (into Omar Epps and Sanaa Lathan). He finds it relatively easy to follow in the footsteps of his NBA-pro dad, whereas there’s no equivalent path for female players. Writer-director Gina Prince-Bythewood empathizes with Monica, who watches fame go to her old friend’s head. Per the formula, audiences are conditioned to root for the romance to work out, but basketball occupies a bigger part of Monica’s heart, and the movie finds the perfect solution. — PD

Call Me by Your Name (2017)

CALL ME BY YOUR NAME, from left: Armie Hammer, Timothee Chalamet, 2017. ph: Sayombhu Mukdeeprom / © Sony Pictures Classics / courtesy Everett Collection

Italian director Luca Guadagnino (“I Am Love”) turned André Aciman’s ecstatic, wildly overwritten novel of a formative first love between teenage Elio (Timothée Chalamet) and his father’s slightly older — but still relatively inexperienced — teaching assistant, Oliver (Armie Hammer), into a sensual summer dream. There’s an intensity to the sights, sensations and emotions that imprints itself on audiences, such that Elio’s memories become our own. One needn’t be gay to recognize the significance that such an all-consuming early infatuation can leave on a young person’s romantic identity, though the movie offers a welcome message to all who’ve struggled to come to terms with their own sexuality in the eloquent heart-to-heart between the boy and his surprisingly understanding dad: “How you live your life is your business. Just remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once,” he says. “Don’t kill it and with it the joy you’ve felt.” — PD

Vertigo (1958)

VERTIGO, James Stewart, Kim Novak, 1958

For a director who was known as the thrillingly precise and methodical Master of Suspense, Alfred Hitchcock was not shy about portraying romantic rapture. A number of his films (“To Catch a Thief,” “Notorious,” “Rear Window”) are entrancing love stories, but in “Vertigo” he dove deep into an almost private zone of love-as-fetishistic-obsession. James Stewart’s middle-aged detective falls for the woman he’s hired to follow — played, with a depressive carnality, by Kim Novak, who also plays the woman’s shop-girl look-alike, who Stewart then feels compelled to transform into the first woman. No classic Hollywood movie balances love on the precipice of kink and danger the way this one does, which is why “Vertigo” opened the door to everything from “Blue Velvet” to the career of Brian De Palma. — OG

La La Land (2016)

LA LA LAND, from left, Emma Stone, Ryan Gosling, 2016. ©Summit Entertainment/courtesy Everett Collection

Damien Chazelle’s glorious, heartrending, bittersweet musical does an extraordinary job of retro-fitting the song-and-dance pleasures of vintage Hollywood into the sunlit freeway landscape of contemporary Los Angeles. Yet the film’s most radical feature is the way it brings Mia (Emma Stone), an aspiring actress, together with Seb (Ryan Gosling), a jazz pianist drowning in his own purity, and celebrates their union with intoxicating affection — only to show you how their love crashes on the shores of warring egos. What lifts “La La Land” into the realm of transcendently moving love stories is that it presents a happy ending that almost happened, and that could have happened if only life had turned out a bit different. — OG

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)

ETERNAL SUNSHINE OF THE SPOTLESS MIND, Kate Winslet, Jim Carrey, 2004, (c) Focus Features/courtesy Everett Collection

Dramatically speaking, the most exciting part of a relationship occurs either during the time a couple is falling in love or else at the moment it’s falling apart. Screenwriter Charlie Kaufman incorporates both aspects — albeit as endangered flashbacks — while exploring a fantasy that anyone who’s been through the emotional wringer of a relationship can identify with: What if you could erase all traces of an ex from your memory? Director Michel Gondry proved the perfect partner to visualize the sketchy sci-fi apparatus that makes a brain scrub possible for Joel (Jim Carrey), who realizes halfway through that, however painful, he can’t live without any trace of his soulmate, Clementine (Kate Winslet), the manic free spirit with the Kool-Aid-colored hair. As Joel tries to hold on to the good times while his mind’s being wiped, Kaufman allows audiences to absorb their best memories and make them our own. — PD

Four Weddings and a Funeral (1994)

FOUR WEDDINGS AND A FUNERAL, from left: Andie MacDowell, Hugh Grant, 1994, © Gramercy Pictures/courtesy Everett Collection

Hugh Grant stammered his way into our hearts, fumbling and fluttering his eyelids the whole way, in a delightfully English rom-com from screenwriter Richard Curtis (who juggled no fewer than eight couples in his 2003 directorial debut “Love Actually”). This more streamlined love story starts where practically every Jane Austen story ends: at the altar. Grant’s not the one getting hitched at those opening nuptials, though he does fall hard for an American guest played by Andie MacDowell. Their courtship is unconventional (it amounts to shagging anytime their friends tie the knot), but the chemistry is undeniable. When it’s time for Charles and Carrie to get married, however, each of them says their vows with someone else. So how do they wind up together? It’s the little surprises that delight. — PD

Out of Sight (1998)

OUT OF SIGHT, Jennifer Lopez, George Clooney, 1998

In terms of sheer sex appeal, it’s hard to top the chemistry between George Clooney and Jennifer Lopez, who play an incorrigible bank robber and the U.S Marshall tasked with apprehending him in Steven Soderbergh’s sultry, time-skipping Elmore Leonard adaptation. It’s steamy from the start, as a prison break leaves cop and quarry stuffed in a trunk together — a cozy way to get acquainted. Four years after “Pulp Fiction,” the picture came at a moment when Soderbergh was experimenting with film editing and features several nifty innovations, including an unconventional love scene that turns up the heat by cutting between flirtation and payoff. In one thread, Jack Foley and Karen Sisco roleplay in the hotel bar, pretending to be strangers. Skipping ahead, it teases glimpses of the “time out” where all this cocktail talk is headed: a striptease upstairs, in which the pair put aside their differences long enough to make love. — PD

The Unbearable Lightness of Being (1988)

THE UNBEARABLE LIGHTNESS OF BEING, Juliette Binoche, Daniel Day-Lewis, 1988, (c)Orion Pictures/courtesy Everett Collection

Great as he is, we don’t tend of think of Daniel Day-Lewis as an overwhelmingly romantic movie star. In Philip Kaufman’s heady, intoxicating, high-wire adaptation of the Milan Kundera novel, he plays Tomas, a character who is very much a fickle Lothario — a randy physician in 1960s Prague who bounces from one conquest to the next, though he does have a regular thing going with Sabine (Lena Olin), an artist who likes to spice their lovemaking with mirrors and bowler hats. But then Tomas meets Tereza (Juliette Binoche), whose gravity pulls him down to earth. And then the Soviet tanks come rolling in, blowing up all their lives. When that happens, “The Unbearable Lightness of Being” becomes one of the most seriously moving love stories in cinema, a tale of three lost souls yearning to connect, to survive, to unlock love’s mystery. — OG

A Star Is Born (1954)

A STAR IS BORN, James Mason, Judy Garland, 1954

For 30 years, the Judy Garland/James Mason version of “A Star Is Born” was tainted by the messy circumstances of its making. The script kept getting rewritten, Garland was a notoriously unstable presence on set, and when the movie premiered in New York, it was three hours long — but executives at Warner Bros. then chopped it by half an hour, without so much as consulting the director, George Cukor. Yet when the movie was re-released in the ’80s, its reputation was elevated in a way that’s comparable to what happened with Hitchcock’s “Vertigo.” A world of moviegoers discovered that Cukor had crafted one of the most darkly entrancing love stories ever made. Its haunted spirit of rapture and loss is incarnated in Garland’s performance of “The Man That Got Away,” in Mason’s jaw-dropping drunken slap of Garland during a scene set at the Oscars, and in the tragic finale, which touches the secret heart of love: the faith necessary to sustain it. — OG

The Remains of the Day (1993)

REMAINS OF THE DAY, Emma Thompson, Anthony Hopkins, 1993

Repression and strict social restraints are constantly keeping lovers apart in the works of director James Ivory, producer Ismail Merchant and screenwriter Ruth Prawer Jhabvala, who together made a career’s worth of exquisitely nuanced literary adaptations frequently (and often unfairly) lumped in with lesser, made-for-TV costume dramas. While “A Room with a View” and “Maurice” are more overtly passionate, the trio’s take on Kazuo Ishiguro’s celebrated novel offers a heartbreaking portrayal of a couple kept apart by codes beyond their control. In this case, a butler (Anthony Hopkins) born and raised to serve the English aristocracy is so mindful of his place that he can’t bring himself to tell the housekeeper he adores (Emma Thompson) his true feelings. It’s wrenching to watch this docile attendant struggle between emotions for a colleague and devotion to his job, and yet, between the lines, and in these two masterful performances, are written volumes. — PD

Sid and Nancy (1986)

SID AND NANCY, Gary Oldman, Chloe Webb, 1986, (c) Samuel Goldwyn/courtesy Everett Collection

The director Alex Cox brought off something singularly audacious by centering a punk biopic on Sid Vicious, the Sex Pistols’ bassist and all-around showman-fuckup who was so dissolute most of the time that he could barely play his instrument or keep from nodding out. Yet the ultimate audacity of Cox’s film is that it dares to present Vicious’s relationship with Nancy Spungen, the torn-fishnet groupie from suburban Pennsylvania who turned him into a heroin addict, as if they were the Tristan and Isolde of the rock ‘n’ roll gutter. As Sid, Gary Oldman gives what may still be his greatest performance, and Chloe Webb, as Nancy, gives what is simply one of the most powerful performances in the history of cinema. Her Nancy is a caterwauling liar and junkie, such a damaged shard of a human being that it tears your heart apart just to behold her. Nancy and Sid are barely functional narcissist addicts, yet their love affair is fused on an animal level; they need each other to live, and to die. “Sid and Nancy” is raw and exhilarating — the greatest of all music biopics, and (not so incidentally) the most romantic. — OG

Moonlight (2016)

MOONLIGHT, from left: Jharrel Jerome, Ashton Sanders, 2016. ph: David Bornfriend/ © A24 /courtesy Everett Collection

Told through poetic glimpses over three separate chapters in the life of its main character, “Moonlight” doesn’t feel like a love story at first. Director Barry Jenkins introduces Chiron at age 10, too young to recognize his own homosexuality, and yet already being teased as soft by his peers. In the middle segment, the boy meets Kevin, with whom he starts to explore his feelings, only to have that possibility derailed by bullying. Subverting stereotypes at every turn, the movie gives this lost soul a second chance in the final stretch, focusing on a tender, tentative reunion between Chiron (bulked up and thick-skinned from his time in prison) and his former crush. By this point, audiences are so invested in the character that “Moonlight” broke free of the rigid box that confines most queer stories to LGBT audiences, making it a crossover success and historic Oscar winner. — PD

The Apartment (1960)

THE APARTMENT, Jack Lemmon, Shirley MacLaine, 1960

The dialogue still zings and the heartbreak still stings in Billy Wilder’s ahead-of-its-time depiction of two Manhattan office drones who are both exploited by the same manager: Jack Lemmon plays ultra-cynical insurance salesman Bud Baxter, while Shirley MacLaine is Fran Kubelik, the elevator girl who brightens his days … but loves his boss. The plot (which involves Bud lending his place to higher-ups to schtup their secretaries) anticipates the #MeToo movement, while also acknowledging the reality that well-intentioned workers frequently fall for their colleagues. Bud goes about it the relatively respectful way, while Fran’s plight illustrates how unfair the world can be to those who mix business and pleasure. For audiences that love “Mad Men,” but identify with the underdog, the movie poses a wonderfully adult conundrum — one which forces Bud to decide between personal ethics and professional ambition, knowing it could all go sideways for him, career-wise. — PD

An Officer and a Gentleman (1982)

AN OFFICER AND A GENTLEMAN, Richard Gere, Debra Winger, 1982, (c) Paramount/courtesy Everett Collection

In the New Hollywood ’70s, a great many aspects of classic big-screen romance — the unabashed yearning, the sparkle, the lock-step gender roles — began to fall by the wayside. There was a lot of chatter about how romance itself was fading out of the culture. But that’s part of what made “An Officer and a Gentleman” loom so large. In its meticulous throwback of a story about a drifter, played with pinpoint narcissistic glamour by Richard Gere, who enlists in the Navy and falls for one of the “Puget Sound Debs” (Debra Winger) who want to marry a future jet pilot, the movie seemed to bring back, for the post-feminist era, the kind of shamelessly ardent love story that had fallen out of fashion. It helped that director Taylor Hackford infused it all with a contempo grittiness. As a basic-training movie, “Officer” anticipated much of ”Full Metal Jacket,” but what makes it indelible is the hungry desire enacted by Debra Winger, whose gaze of soulful adoration brings Gere fully alive as a romantic actor. — OG

In the Mood for Love (2000)

IN THE MOOD FOR LOVE, (aka FA YEUNG NIN WA), Tony Leung Chiu Wai, Maggie Cheung, 2000. ©Miramax/courtesy Everett Collection

Cinema could hardly conjure a more lovely or elegant couple than cigarette-smoking Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung, who floats through stairwells in form-fitting cheongsams. Operating on the wisp of a plot, improvised and evolved over nearly a year, Hong Kong director Wong Kar-wai denies these two beautiful avatars a conventional romance. They play neighbors who discover that their spouses are having an affair, and rather than sink to the same level, they indulge in a bit of imaginative detective work, reenacting how their partners might have met. This thin outline leaves near-infinite room for Wong to evoke a subjective range of responses from his audience, using the full range of cinematic tools — color, costume, gesture, music — to solicit a different reading from each viewer. Your mileage may vary, but keep in mind: Wong’s a feel-maker as much as a filmmaker, rewriting the rules via this elliptical dance between unrequited lovers. — PD

Moonstruck (1987)

MOONSTRUCK, Nicolas Cage, Cher, 1987

At early test screenings, audiences weren’t falling for Norman Jewison’s now-classic New York romance the way they were supposed to, until he laid the tune “When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie…” over the opening credits. Cher tamped down her natural glamour to embody pragmatic Italian-American widow Loretta Castorini, who’s ready to settle for Johnny’s (Danny Aiello) passionless marriage proposal when she meets his brother Ronnie, played by a hot-blooded Nicolas Cage. Let’s just say, Ronnie gives this sensible Catholic woman reason to go to confession. The script by John Patrick Shanley is all but bursting with culturally specific detail, from drool-worthy dishes to unusual superstitions, but it’s the colorful ensemble — family members who want what’s best for Loretta — that ultimately serves to validate her seemingly reckless choice. After a lifetime of listening to her head, she finally decides to follow her heart. That’s amore! — PD

City Lights (1931)

CITY LIGHTS, Charlie Chaplin, Virginia Cherrill, 1931

Charlie Chaplin stubbornly resisted the film industry’s embrace of sound, releasing this silent treasure into a sea of talkies. Cinema may have gone a different direction, but his stubborn adherence to pantomime (plus his obsessive need to reshoot every shot until perfect) makes this love story seem all the more timeless, as Chaplin’s signature character, the Tramp, falls for a blind flower seller (Virginia Cherrill). She mistakes him for a wealthy man, and the Tramp allows her to go on imagining him that way in the most poetic version of a familiar rom-com trope ever committed to film: At some point, he’ll have to come clean. Will she still love him when she discovers the truth? The final scene, in which she recognizes the vulnerable fool after her vision has been restored, not by sight but by contact, ranks among the medium’s most romantic. — PD

Bonnie and Clyde (1967)

BONNIE AND CLYDE, Faye Dunaway, Warren Beatty, 1967

Of the many qualities that made it a revolutionary movie, two stand above all others. The first, and most talked about, is how violent it was — the bystander shot through the eye, the climactic slow-motion blood ballet, and everything else that rubbed the audience’s nose in what being a criminal really meant. But the other quality that defined “Bonnie and Clyde” was how shockingly sultry and romantic it was. The ads for the movie said, “They’re young. They’re in love. And they kill people.” The subtext was that something in the connection between Faye Dunaway’s torrid hunger and Warren Beatty’s vulnerable stud glamour was itself so dangerous that it was lethal. Just check out the two stars’ faces as they exchange one last look before being strafed to death by a hail of bullets. That look is the essence of true love. — OG

The 'Before' Trilogy (1995, 2004, 2013)

BEFORE SUNRISE, from left: Julie Delpy, Ethan Hawke, 1995. ph: Gabriela Brandenstein /© Columbia /Courtesy Everett Collection

Taken by itself, 1995’s “Before Sunrise” represents the perfect encapsulation of young love: Two strangers meet on a train, get off together in Vienna and spend the night walking and talking (there’s some debate as to whether they make love, as the movie’s too modest to show it). Nine years later, director Richard Linklater delivered one of the most satisfying sequels of all time in “Before Sunset,” reuniting with his two characters, Jesse (Ethan Hawke) and Céline (Julie Delpy), in Paris. Their time is once again limited, but now, the conversation deals with their regrets. But the attraction remains, and the movie ends with the implication they wind up together. But is it happily ever after? Linklater and company caught up with the pair once again with “Before Midnight,” and the movie finds them together, but dissatisfied, acknowledging the challenges that confront couples after nearly a decade together. It was impossible to guess when they first met how deep this relationship would go, and still anybody’s guess how it will end. — PD

Annie Hall (1977)

ANNIE HALL, from left: Diane Keaton, Woody Allen, 1977

“I lurve you,” says Woody Allen’s Alvy Singer, coming about as close as he can to declaring his feelings for Annie Hall (Diane Keaton), the beguiling thrift-shop space cadet who charmed the world with her la-di-da innocence. Allen’s late-’70s classic was, at the time, a new kind of love story — the saga of a “relationship,” which is to say a partnership not truly built to last. And maybe Alvy Singer had to say “lurve” instead of “love” because, deep down, he wasn’t really sure that he could commit himself to the L-word. Yet the magic of “Annie Hall” is that is channeled how an entire generation had come to regard love in the age of therapeutic navel-gazing: as something intoxicating yet transient, rooted in a seems-like-old-times nostalgia that felt more at home looking back than forward. — OG

Jerry Maguire (1996)

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Tom Cruise had always been a solo vessel — a cruise missile of a movie star. It was Cameron Crowe’s inspiration, in casting Cruise as a sports agent who gets tossed out of the game and has to reinvent himself as a better person in order to come back, to pair Cruise with Renée Zellweger, an unknown actor who did not come off like some female-movie-star equivalent of Tom Cruise. She had a homespun allure that seemed to be calling his cockiness, his very stardom, on the carpet. The beauty of the line “You complete me” is that Cruise seemed, at last, to be letting down the guard of a dozen years of mega-stardom. The beauty of “You had me at hello” is that it reminds us of how easy love is when it’s real. — OG

Roman Holiday (1953)

ROMAN HOLIDAY, Audrey Hepburn, Gregory Peck, 1953

Audrey Hepburn plays the fed-up crown princess of an unspecified country in this escapist romp through the Eternal City. The project kicked off a seven-picture run with Paramount, during which she may as well have been the queen of Hollywood romances: “Sabrina,” “Funny Face,” “My Fair Lady” and more. Suffocating under the obligations of her position, she sneaks out during a European tour, landing in the hands of Gregory Peck’s dishonest (yet honorable) American newspaperman. He thinks he’s hit the jackpot, betting his editor he can deliver an exclusive interview with the princess — but he doesn’t gamble on falling for the dame. Their whirlwind romance lasts but a day, but in that time, the reporter gives Ann/Anya/Audrey a taste of freedom. She plays it coy for most of the movie, but the closeup on her face at the end says it all. — PD

Gone with the Wind (1939)

GONE WITH THE WIND, Clark Gable, Vivien Leigh, 1939

The scene where Clark Gable carries Vivien Leigh up the stairs, with intimations of (to put it mildly) erotic coercion, would not pass muster today. Yet that scene, and others that rhyme with it, are part of what make the most epic of Old Hollywood love stories one of the most darkly complicated and enthralling of Old Hollywood love stories. Leigh’s Scarlett O’Hara is fierce, strong, manipulative — the Southern belle as aristocratic vixen — and so she and Rhett Butler are destined to turn love into a battle that’s doomed to end in a draw. But what heat and light their fireworks give off! “Gone with the Wind” is a movie that’s now seen as “problematic,” yet one of the most seemingly imperfect things about it — the alternating currents of sex and anger, devotion and contempt that fuel the central relationship — is what makes it such a tumultuous classic. — OG

The Umbrellas of Cherbourg (1964)

THE UMBRELLAS OF CHERBOURG, (aka LES PARAPLUIES DE CHERBOURG), Catherine Deneuve, 1964

A couple needn’t end up together for a love story to stand the test of time. In the case of Jacques Demy’s bittersweet musical, there’s a relatable quality to the way circumstances keep a working-class French couple from their happily ever after. That downbeat fate serves to balance the bright colors and bold choice of delivering every line of dialogue, no matter how banal, through song. That recitative strategy is common enough in opera, but downright revolutionary on film, still fresh and highly unusual all these years later. Naive young Geneviève (Catherine Deneuve, doll-like at 19) sells umbrellas in the family shop. Guy (Nino Castelnuovo) fixes cars at a nearby garage. They seem destined to be together, until military service calls him away. Michel Legrand’s score leans into the melancholy what might have been in what feels like a snow globe rendering of real life. — PD

Brokeback Mountain (2005)

BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN, Heath Ledger, Jake Gyllenhaal, 2005, (c) Focus Features/courtesy Everett Collection

It’s a queer love story set entirely in the closet. Yet by dramatizing the inner lives of two cowboys who find a romantic home on the range in early 1960s Wyoming, Ang Lee’s breathtaking adaptation of the Annie Proulx short story undermined every expectation of contemporary audiences. In showing us two men who discover a love that they themselves think is forbidden, the film dramatizes how prejudice can worm its way into the very fabric of people’s lives; it also demonstrates that the myth of the straight-as-an-arrow American macho he-man is just that – a myth. At the same time, our yearning for Ennis and Jack to make a life for themselves becomes overwhelming in its heartbreak. The performances of Jake Gyllenhaal and Heath Ledger are indelible — and, in Ledger’s case, miraculous, as he turns the muffled, barely articulate Ennis into a living metaphor for a love that cannot speak its name. — OG

Ghost (1990)

GHOST, from left: Demi Moore, Patrick Swayze, 1990. ©Paramount/courtesy Everett Collection

It’s a love story, a ghost story, a corporate crime story, a pottery story, and a movie in which Whoopi Goldberg plays the world’s funniest cut-up mystic. But who would have guessed that just four months after “Pretty Woman,” it would be the headiest romantic movie of its year? The director, Jerry Zucker, was a veteran of the “Airplane!” troupe, yet somehow he juggled all these elements to touch a chord of pure fairy-tale rapture, spinning out the story of a New York banker who’s killed by a mugger and returns as a ghost to protect his artist girlfriend. The way Patrick Swayze and Demi Moore bond across the ectoplasmic divide is at once thrilling and moving (true love, it seems, knows no restrictions, from either physics or the spirit world). The film turned the Righteous Brothers’ “Unchained Melody” into a retro smash, but only because of how it tapped the film’s emotions: intimate, operatic, quavering with devotion. — OG

Brief Encounter (1945)

BRIEF ENCOUNTER, from left: Celia Johnson, Trevor Howard, 1945

It all began with a little piece of grit in her eye. Fortunately — or not — for Laura Jesson (Celia Johnson), a doctor was present to remove the offending particle, and when her vision cleared, there he stood, Dr. Alec Harvey (Trevor Howard), handsome and kind. The train station where this meeting happens serves as a kind of romantic purgatory, with each locomotive that steams through reminding Laura and Alec of their obligations to their actual partners. But every Thursday, they meet in town, too weak to resist the growing love between them — feelings which the conservative forces of the time could not condone, but which spoke to a human experience too widespread to go ignored. And so David Lean’s slender, achingly honest film has stood for years, staunchly refusing to judge two would-be adulterous souls, letting audiences in on a secret that even their spouses don’t suspect. — PD

A Star Is Born (2018)

A STAR IS BORN, l-r: Bradley Cooper, Lady Gaga,  2018. ph: Clay Enos /© Warner Bros./ Courtesy Everett Collection

It’s a seesawing Hollywood love story that’s been told on the big screen close to half a dozen times, yet never more powerfully or artfully than by Bradley Cooper in his astonishing directorial debut. From the bombastic kitsch of the 1976 Streisand/Kristofferson version, Cooper borrowed the idea of turning the central character into a rock ‘n’ roll star, and his performance as Jackson Maine — a half-deaf drunken burnout, running on fumes, even though he’s able to fool the world into thinking he’s still a rock god — grounds the soap-opera story in something disarmingly earthy and real. When Jackson meets Ally (Lady Gaga), a budding singer-songwriter, and invites her onstage to sing “Shallow,” you will get chills the way few romantic movies have given them to you — and the tremors don’t let up, as the two get on a serpentine roller-coaster of love vs. jealousy, arena rock vs. dance pop, and tragedy slipping into redemption. — OG

Moulin Rouge! (2001)

MOULIN ROUGE!, Nicole Kidman, Ewan McGregor, 2001, TM & Copyright (c) 20th Century Fox Film Corp./courtesy Everett Collection

Baz Luhrmann’s visionary jukebox musical is in love with a lot of things: the look and feel of faux 1890s sound-stage Paris (that nightclub windmill etched in light), the epiphany of pop songs like Elton John’s “Your Song” when they pop up in what should be the wrong place (but then why does it feel so right?). Mostly, though, the film is in love with Christian and Satine, the romantic bohemians played by Ewan McGregor and Nicole Kidman, who summon gazes of such doomed longing that the film’s ultimate love affair seems to be with love itself — the unearthly kind, the kind that lives as an impossible dream. — OG

To Catch a Thief (1955)

TO CATCH A THIEF, Grace Kelly, Cary Grant, 1955.

From “The Awful Truth” to “An Affair to Remember,” Cary Grant enjoyed a two-decade run as Hollywood’s most dapper leading man, romancing everyone from Katharine Hepburn to Ingrid Bergman, sometimes multiple times over. But it was paired with impossibly elegant star (and future princess) Grace Kelly that Grant sparkled brightest, playing a notorious jewel thief who finds Kelly’s wealthy American tourist even more irresistible than her invaluable diamond necklace. Like a well-practiced cat burglar, this sprightly Hitchcock movie tiptoes so lightly it hardly touches the ground, sweeping audiences away to the chicest of locations on the French Riviera. Whether it’s the scene of Kelly’s gems outdazzling a fireworks show (she stands in the shadow while her diamonds glisten in full view of Grant) or the hilltop picnic overlooking Monaco, the vibrant full-color fling gave landlocked Americans a fizzy Mediterranean fantasy featuring the most distinguished couple imaginable. — PD

Titanic (1997)

TITANIC, from left: Leonardo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet, 1997. TM & Copyright ©20th Century Fox Film Corp. All rights reserved./Courtesy Everett Collection

The swooniest romantic movie of its time, and also the most sublime, James Cameron’s ocean disaster epic is the rare Hollywood blockbuster that achieves a larger-than-life quality. Yet its secret weapon as a love story is the too-often-unacknowledged deftness of its storytelling. As Jack and Rose, the sweethearts from opposite sides of the class divide, Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet have an effervescent chemistry, yet they’re playing starry-eyed youths caught in a puppy-love fling. The implication is that their union might last just about as long as the Titanic’s voyage — were it not for that fateful iceberg. In “Titanic,” it’s disaster itself that elevates love into something timeless. — OG

Casablanca (1942)

CASABLANCA, from left, Humphrey Bogart, Ingrid Bergman, 1942

It was often said that in the 20th century, the movies taught people how to fall in love. You certainly know that watching “Casablanca.” In all of cinema, there is no love connection more pure, more impassioned, more haunted by the past, more alive in the present, more complicated by circumstance than the one between Rick (Humphrey Bogart), the expatriate owner of a shady Moroccan nightclub and gambling den, and Ilsa (Ingrid Bergman), the woman he fell in love with in Paris in 1940, only to be abandoned by her for mysterious reasons. Do they still love each other? The answer to that is as simple as listening to Sam (Dooley Wilson), the saloon pianist, play “As Time Goes By” and hearing that it’s really about how a kiss is just a kiss…for all time. Yet if Michael Curtiz’s ageless Hollywood classic celebrates what love is, it’s also about the deepest level of what love means : not just rapture but sacrifice, devotion to the other, a giving over of oneself to something larger. “Casablanca” remains the ultimate big-screen romance, in part because Bogart and Bergman show us that love is a force within us powerful enough to connect to — and save — the world. — OG

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Why We Need Romantic Comedies More Than Ever at This Moment

One woman explains their value in the face of a crisis

Naomi Shah is the founder and CEO of Meet Cute , a new entertainment company that makes short, audio romantic comedies. An ideal night for her is a rom com movie marathon with her friends and a big bowl of popcorn (which translates well to social distancing!). Before starting Meet Cute, she was a member of the investment team at Union Square Ventures, a technology venture capital firm in New York, where she spent most of her time talking to companies in the well-being space. She shares an essay about why the romantic comedy is more important than ever during a bleak time in our history – namely, the coronavirus pandemic .

In the last couple of weeks, a lot of articles and tweets have talked about the influence of the Black Death on the Renaissance. During that time, people explored and patronized art and other creative endeavors that made them feel good as a means of coping with the misery of mass death and bad news. This historical tie-in points to a similar future that might be full of modern-day Midsummer’s Night Dream s.

In the 1930s, during The Great Depression, entertainment and specifically romantic comedies (rom-coms) burgeoned. The decade before, movies had just transitioned from silent films to “talkies”, setting up Hollywood well to make stories about human connection. Movies like Sylvia Scarlett (1935), Bringing Up Baby (1938), Holiday (1938), Ninotchka (1939), The Philadelphia Story (1940), and Woman of the Year (1942) were entertaining people during the crises of a severe worldwide economic depression and the Second World War.

This same time period saw a rise in slapstick comedy that functioned similarly to rom-coms as escapism: Charlie Chaplin helped pull people out of difficult times by making them laugh and Disney also released their first feature-length film Snow White and The Seven Dwarfs . About 30 years later, Woody Allen entertained the masses in the Vietnam era of the 1970s with movies including Annie Hall (1977) and Manhattan (1977).

In fact, the modern “renaissance” of the rom-com — the ’90s — is an outlier in the genre, since movies like Pretty Woman and Runaway Bride thrived during a relatively peaceful era. This could be why the romantic comedy developed a reputation as being somewhat frivolous. Sure, these usually aren’t the movies that are shortlisted for awards, but this is a category that deserves a few moments of attention for helping us get through the tougher times and giving people a much-needed escape.

First, rom coms are hopeful and happy . They always end with a happily ever after. Many times, I feel like I’m watching a rom com for that one scene that I love (for example, this final scene on the bridge , from How To Lose A Guy in 10 Days ). We sit through the 90 minutes of the movie to get the feeling that this scene brings out. It leaves us feeling like anything is possible and believing in serendipity.

Second, rom-coms are incredibly consistent . Each story has the same narrative arc; there’s some sort of “meet cute” moment between two characters where two people meet in a way that the audience knows they are destined to be together, even if they start out hating each other like Kat and Patrick in 10 Things I Hate About You (1999). Then there’s some sort of conflict that arises, a journey in which their connection grows stronger, the resolution, and the happily ever after. Because the narrative arc is not particularly innovative, it allows the audience to relax into the story because they know that the characters will end up together by the end of the story. The audience knows not to expect shocking deaths or tragic twists, and therefore it is okay to emotionally invest in the characters.

Third, rom-coms are about human connection . An interesting coincidence is that the pandemic kicked off around the same time as the Netflix series Love is Blind , a show about whether or not you could achieve human connection without being able to physically make contact. It’s not such a coincidence that the show took off — in an almost poetic way, mirroring the experience we were on the cusp of living. Right now, people want to feel as though they can connect to others, even if they are not able to physically.

Will we be feeling the need to live vicariously through others’ connections during this time period? Rom-coms remind us that there are so many ways for people to form connections and that there is an incredible amount of diversity in the characters and settings that keep the stories fresh. In highlighting some of the mundane, yet very important, moments – like an awkward pause or a regretful glance – that define human connection, these stories about love remain super-relatable in the most trying times.

Finally, rom-coms are bingeable . They are like macaroni and cheese for your brain; and therefore it’s not surprising that during times of economic or emotional hardship humans have turned to rom-coms as a way to escape from uncertainty in the world, and in the headlines. So, while you are socially distancing yourself from other people over the next few months, turn off the news for a bit, grab some actual mac and cheese, sink into the couch, and put on your favorite rom-com. It might “just what the doctor ordered.”

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But when you want a straight-ahead, no-frills romance, these are the best romantic movies of all time. Sure, they may incorporate elements of comedy, action or drama, and some of them may even star teens. But the biggest criteria is that the relationship has to be the most front-and-center focus of the film. These are the films that give you all those yearning feelings, the ones that yank on the heartstrings with all their might. And while they may be fewer and far between these days, there are plenty of them around if you know where to look. Grab a sweetheart and get ready to swoon.

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Lady Chatterly's Lover (2022)

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This movie is based on the super-steamy, often-banned novel by D.H. Lawrence, and it lives up to its source material in intensity. It follows the life of Constance Reid, an aristocratic wife whose eye turns toward her estate's gamekeeper when her husband returns from the war paralyzed from the waist down. Their affair would upend social norms in a variety of ways, but can she resist his allure?

The Worst Person in the World (2021)

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This Norwegian film, which was nominated in the Best International Feature Film at the Academy Awards, is a coming-of-age story and romance melded together, focusing on the loves that come in and out of your life when you don't have yourself 100% together. (Who can't relate?) It mostly focuses on Julie (Renate Reinsve) and her journey to young adulthood, but Anders Danielsen Lie co-stars as the man she crosses paths with over and over.

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Sylvie's Love (2020)

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Sylvie and Robert meet when Robert gets a job at Sylvie's father's Harlem record shop in 1957. The movie then follows the couple through the years, as they navigate their ambitions, their unexpected setbacks and their feelings for each other.

Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019)

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This film-festival favorite, which was nominated for a slew of awards at the end of 2019, follows a woman who is commissioned to travel to a remote island to paint a portrait of a woman as part of an arranged marriage; of course, she falls in love with her subject, and a forbidden romance ensues.

A Star Is Born (2018)

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If you're looking for a story about people brought together by talent and torn apart by fame, you can watch a number of takes on A Star Is Born : There's the 1937 original with Janet Gaynor and Fredric March, the 1954 version with Judy Garland and James Mason or the 1976 remake with Barbra Streisand and Kris Kristofferson. But only the most recent one, with Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper, has a performance of the heart-rending song " Shallow ."

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If Beale Street Could Talk (2018)

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From Barry Jenkins — director of Moonlight , which is its own sort of romance — comes this James Baldwin adaptation. It's about a couple, madly in love and expecting a child, whose relationship is upended when one of them is accused of a crime he didn't commit.

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Call Me By Your Name (2017)

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First love is often the most intense, for better or for worse, and Call Me By Your Name captures all of those roiling emotions. Based on the book by André Aciman , it follows the young son of academics who, while on summer break in Italy, falls hard for one of his dad's grad students.

Carol (2015)

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Based on the novel The Price of Salt by Patricia Highsmith, Carol tells the story of an affair between two women in the 1950s, so you get the pleasure of watching all the sumptuous period dresses and interiors in addition to being swept away by the romance. This film also features an Oscar-nominated performances from Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara.

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Only Lovers Left Alive (2013)

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There have been many movies that have attempted to master the romance-and-vampires genre (to varying success), but this Jim Jarmusch movie is the only one that gets at how wearying it would be to keep a marriage intact across centuries . Tilda Swinton and Tom Hiddleston play estranged but married vampires named Eve and Adam. (Get it?) When Adam is sunk by a depressive episode, Eve finds him again and tries to cheer him up.

Anna Karenina (2012)

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Playwright Tom Stoppard adapts Leo Tolstoy's celebrated novel , with director Joe Wright giving the story new visual twists and turns that make it almost seem like a theatrical production more than a movie. The story follows the upper-echelons of Russian society, and how affairs of the heart can change a person's social standing.

Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day (2008)

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Miss Pettigrew, a movie set in London in the run-up to World War II, lives somewhere between romantic drama and screwball comedy. Amy Adams takes over the screwball part, playing Delysia Lafosse, a socialite juggling relationships with three different men (all of whom can somehow help her career or social standing). When Guinevere Pettigrew (played by Frances McDormand) is enlisted to be her social secretary, she's swept into Delysia's high-status world, and embarks on a more serious relationship of her own.

Brokeback Mountain (2005)

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Both Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal earned Academy Award nominations for their depiction of two cowboys who conduct an affair in secret in the wilds of Wyoming. (They lost, but director Ang Lee brought home the award.)

The Notebook (2004)

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Based on a novel by Nicholas Sparks , this romance spans decades, flipping between a couple's first blush of love in the '40s and the present-day reality of how that relationship has transformed in old age. And while that may be moving, we sometimes forget everything that happens after Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams' rain-soaked kissing scene.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)

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Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind breaks all the rules for romances, starting after the central couple has already broken up. Joel (Jim Carrey), still reeling from heartbreak, seeks out a procedure that'll erase Clementine (Kate Winslet) from his memory. The resulting trip through his mind, and memories of his past with Clementine, result in something more poignant than a straightforward rom-com could provide.

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The 200 Best Romantic Comedies of All Time

Hooking up? No problem. “Meet cute” at the book shop? Happens all the time. Finding the right one, falling in love, and getting married? What else are you gonna do? But compiling the ultimate list of the Freshest romantic comedies of all time? It’s complicated.

For our list of the 200 best romantic comedies of all time, we searched high and low throughout movie history for every permutation of (hilarious) courtship and love captured on camera. We have the dazzling wit of the early studio system ( His Girl Friday , Bringing Up Baby ), the realistic cynicism of the ’70s ( Annie Hall , The Goodbye Girl ), and the sweeping romance in-between ( The Apartment ,  Roman Holiday ). There was plenty to find in the John Hughes, teen-driven era ( Say Anything… , Pretty in Pink ), and the bubbly ’90s decade that followed ( Groundhog Day , Four Weddings and a Funeral , While You Were Sleeping ). Then we dabbled in 21st century raunch ( Knocked Up ) and twee ( [500] Days of Summer ), leading into our current era of new voices declaring that they too are entitled to their own messy relationship stories ( The Big Sick , Crazy Rich Asians ).

Movies are listed Certified Fresh movies first, followed by the Fresh-hearted. How did we reach our rankings? Because the rom-com has been around for so long and with masterpieces reaching back 100 years, first we said each movie needed at least 20 reviews. Then to make sure the selections played well to general audiences, each movie needed to also have a positive Audience Score (even if they’re Certified Fresh), which knocked out some surprise films, like  About a Boy . Hey, don’t blame us – y’all voted! Finally, any more released after 2016 (when we revamped our critics pool and criteria) needed to be Certified Fresh to make the cut.

For our most recent update, we’ve added the latest in Certified Fresh love: the princely Red, White & Royal Blue , the adaptation of Adrian Tomine’s graphic novel Shortcomings , and the all-in-a-day South London-set Rye Lane .

Ready to dive into the sea of love? Then continue on with open arms into Rotten Tomatoes’ 200 best romantic comedies of all time!

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40 of the best romantic movies to watch if you haven’t yet

Ah, l'amour . Who among us hasn't fallen a little bit in love while watching movie couples go through every possible permutation of epic romance?

"The best movie romances have unique and unforgettable characters and a truly challenging obstacle that they have to overcome in order to fulfill their true love story," Turner Classic Movies host Dave Karger tells TODAY.

The list of films fitting for that description is pretty long, so we've whittled them down to some of the greatest. Here are 40 classic romantic dramas and rom-coms to watch whenever you long for a jolt of love.

'The Holiday' (2006)

Even though it's technically a Christmas movie, "The Holiday" offers a timeless romance that's perfect for any time of year. Two women, Amanda (Cameron Diaz) and Iris (Kate Winslet), swap homes across continents to escape personal crises. Amanda, a successful LA businesswoman, finds herself in a cozy English cottage, while Iris navigates the glitz and glam of Hollywood. While in their respective landscapes, both women discover unexpected romance and personal growth.

'The Vow' (2012)

Based on a true story, "The Vow" tells the poignant tale of Paige (Rachel McAdams) and Leo (Channing Tatum), a couple torn apart by a tragic car accident that robs Paige of her memory. As Leo strives to rekindle their lost love, Paige navigates a journey of rediscovery, struggling between past and present. With heartfelt performances and tender moments, this romantic drama captures the enduring power of love and the courage to start anew.

'Romeo and Juliet' (1968)

Shakespeare's timeless tragedy of star-crossed lovers Romeo (Leonard Whiting) and Juliet (Olivia Hussey) in opulent Verona unfolds in the 1968 film version of "Romeo and Juliet." Amid feuding families, their romance defies all odds, and this adaptation remains a captivating testament to love's intensity and sacrifice.

'An Officer and a Gentleman' (1982)

This romantic drama follows Zack Mayo (Richard Gere), a rebellious cadet in naval training with dreams of becoming an aviator. Along the way, he falls for local factory worker Paula Pokrifki (Debra Winger), whose love inspires him to confront his inner demons and strive for greatness.

'Atonement' (2007)

Spanning decades and continents, "Atonement" chronicles the lives of aspiring writer Cecilia Tallis (Keira Knightley) and her enduring love for Robbie Turner (James McAvoy), the son of her family estate's housekeeper. Amid the turmoil of World War II and the repercussions of a devastating misunderstanding, their love is tested beyond measure. This film explores the power of forgiveness and the quest for redemption.

'West Side Story' (1961, 2021 )

Whether it's the 20th or 21st century film version, "West Side Story" will make you want to dance in the streets — and then reach for tissues for a good cry. As you watch main characters Maria and Tony try to make their star-crossed love affair work, you may find yourself longing for a different ending.

'Roman Holiday' (1953)

Ann (Audrey Hepburn) feels like a normal girl — but she's not. Ann is a princess. And for one weekend, in Rome, with the help of a dashing reporter (Gregory Peck), she lives like a civilian. "Roman Holiday" is a rom-com about falling in love with another person, and also with life's possibilities.

'My Big Fat Greek Wedding' (2002)

Unlike many rom-coms, Toula (Nia Vardalos) and Ian (John Corbett) don't experience conflict with each other. Rather, their relationship is complicated by Toula's ever-intervening Greek family, who are surprised to find that their daughter found love with someone outside the community. "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" is the highest-grossing rom-com of all time , with its one-liners, relatable cultural conflict and lovable couple resonating with audiences.

'Dan in Real Life' (2011)

Can you fall in love in three days? Single dad Dan Burns (Steve Carrell) is an advice columnist and tends to be rational and careful. But when he meets Marie (Juliette Binoche) he finds himself instantly enamored. Then, he finds out Marie is his brother's new girlfriend.

'If Beale Street Could Talk' (2018)

Based on a novel by James Baldwin, this aching film — directed by Barry Jenkins — follows a couple whose love story should have been seamless. But when Fonny (Stephan) is wrongfully charged with committing a crime, he and Tish (KiKi Layne) become caught in the criminal justice system. Their love is tried, even as it sustains them.

'It Happened One Night' (1934)

Those who only know Clark Gable from his "Gone With the Wind" role will be happy to see him being a romantic renegade in the 20th century for once. Sure, the picture's many decades old, but the repartee between Gable and his co-star Claudette Colbert remains spicy and on point even today. Gable plays a reporter tracking a runaway heiress, hoping to land a big story. But the pair are left stranded when the bus they're traveling on leaves them behind, and ... well, hijinks ensue.

'Everything Everywhere All at Once' (2022)

Part sci-fi epic, part mother-daughter saga, "Everything Everywhere All at Once" defies categories. Michelle Yeoh plays Evelyn, a woman who is tapped to save the world by accessing versions of herself in other dimensions. Running through the multi-dimensional movie is her bond with her husband, Waymond (Ke Huy Quan), which shifts as Evelyn does.

'Call Me By Your Name' (2017)

In this tender coming-of-age story, Elio (Timothée Chalamet ) , a bookish teenager living in Italy in 1983 with his parents, has his first romance with a twentysomething graduate student. Oliver (Armie Hammer) joins the family for a summer to help Elio's dad with paperwork. As the sun-soaked days blur together in a haz of swimming and lounging, Elio and Oliver cultivate a natural chemistry. Their first romance is as impossible as it is inevitable. You'd have to be made of stone not to want to see these two lovely guys find some happiness together.

'A Star Is Born' (2018)

One artist on the rise meets another on the decline. And for a brief, caught-breath moment they can exist on the same plane, becoming each other's muse and lover. That's the story told again and again in "A Star Is Born" (other versions have been released in 1937, 1954 and 1976) but few are quite as raw and poignant as the pairing of the luminous Ally (Lady Gaga, a revelation and an Oscar nominee) and tragic Jackson (director Bradley Cooper, also Oscar nominated). Sometimes, the greatest love stories are the ones that don't last a lifetime, but instead burn brightly at both ends.

'La La Land' (2016)

In "La La Land," Amelia and Sebastian (Emma Thompson and Ryan Gosling) are two struggling artists trying to make it in the world of acting and jazz, respectively. Their romance grows through the soaring, old-fashioned love songs they sing to one another, but it becomes apparent that they're starting to grow in different directions. An extended sequence that imagines what might have been if they'd made it as a couple adds additional poignancy to the romance, which suggests that timing has a lot more to do with couples' success stories than we tend to think.

'Pride & Prejudice' (2005)

Jane Austen's novels have a lot to say about class differences and the struggle of women in the 1800s, but what most people come for when enjoying an Austen film adaptation is the romance — and the sheer effort it takes to make romance happen. In "Pride and Prejudice," the strong-willed Elizabeth (Keira Knightley) Mr. Darcy (Matthew Macfayden), a man who acts as if he's above passions of the flesh. It takes quite a few missed encounters and humbling moments to even see if they might have a chance. Fortunately, gorgeous cinematography and a light touch with the humor (Elizabeth is one of five sisters, all of whom have their own drama), this "Pride" is well worth falling for.

'Brokeback Mountain' (2005)

"Brokeback Mountain" is about two men (Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal) who desperately do not want to acknowledge a single truth: They are in love with each other. To do so would upend every bit of their identities, and make them pariahs in the cowboy community they reside in. Plus, they're both married to women. But as Jack (Gyllenhaal) tells Ennis (Ledger) after years of trying to play it straight, "I wish I knew how to quit you." But neither can, and that longing is what draws us in again, and again.

'The Notebook' (2004)

Lovers separated by war and disapproving parents are familiar tropes in any movie romance, but when you add in the sheer youthful longing of Ryan Gosling and Rachel MacAdams, playing a pair who find the strength to wade through all of the societal red tape back to each other's arms, it's a journey well worth taking. The movie's clever bookends elevate it to a place between between high romance and classic soap opera.

'The Princess Bride' (1987)

"The Princess Bride" has revenge, pirate swashbuckling, adventures, Rodents of Unusual Size and — ah, yes, a romance that transcends the laws of life and death. Funny and charming and sweet and full of lots of kissing that even your kids will decide they like, "Princess Bride" is a romantic fable we all are glad to see come true.

'Four Weddings and a Funeral' (1994)

Written by Richard Curtis, "Four and a Funeral Weddings" is about the romantic trials and tribulations of a group of friends who keep getting invited to one another's nuptials (and, sadly, one's funeral, with an elegy that will break your heart). Through it all, Hugh Grant and Andie MacDowell's characters' will-they, won't-they dynamic continues until they actually get a chance to make it work — even if it's raining.

'The Shape of Water' (2017)

We get it: interspecies romance, particularly one with a guy who looks like the Creature from the Black Lagoon, is not for everyone. But let's briefly reframe this Oscar-winning romantic drama. Elisa (Sally Hawkins) has always felt like an outsider, and the movie is a tale of her finding someone like her, at last. Framed that way, "Shape of Water" is about seeing beyond a person's exterior to discover the parts of you that sing together, and — algae aside — make you a complete person.

'Moonstruck' (1987)

You haven't watched "Moonstruck" yet? Snap out of it! This charming, eccentric tale of a woman (Cher, in an Oscar-winning role) engaged to one man (Danny Aiello) while falling in love with his brother (Nicolas Cage) is uplifting, hilarious and deeply romantic at its core. Plus, it's got one of the great character actor lineups of all time (including fellow Oscar winner Olympia Dukakis) and New York City as a perfect supporting character.

'Casablanca' (1942)

"Casablanca" is widely regarded as one of the greatest romances of all time, but the romance gets better upon multiple viewings. That's largely because the film is so famous, so enduring and so classic that its iconic lines may get in the way of fully enjoying the tormented affair between the wife of a resistance fighter in World War II (Ingrid Bergman) and the American cynic (Humphrey Bogart) who owns the bar she happens to walk into one day. Don't let the fact that it's shot in black-and-white deter you: It only adds to the mystery, glamour and sheer romance of the impossible situation the duo is in.

'Love Jones' (1997)

Darius (Larenz Tate) and Nina (Nia Long) are probably perfect for each other, but they keep getting in each other's way. Life for the poet and photographer pairing should be picture perfect, but she's still smarting from a breakup and he's not sure if he's ready to commit. You need a score sheet to see how often they come together and split apart, but some relationships are just like that. It doesn't make them less romantic, it makes them more real.

'When Harry Met Sally' (1989)

Sally (Meg Ryan) and Harry (Billy Crystal) communicate exclusively in rapid-fire banter, among the most charming and endearing dialogue you're going to get in any film, much less a romantic comedy. These two can't stand each other when they meet after college, but accidentally become friends (the kind that are unafraid to fake an orgasm in public , or sing show tunes while shopping ). Their romance folds together as if it were meant to be all along.

'Titanic' (1997)

Considering what happened to the Titanic, it's hard to believe that one of cinema's greatest love stories takes place aboard that ill-fated ship. Yet that's the beauty of the best picture winner : it draws us in with an upstairs-downstairs romance between Rose (Kate Winslet) and Jack (Leonardo DiCaprio), then makes us watch as nearly all hope sinks into the frigid Atlantic Ocean.

'Children of a Lesser God' (1986)

Communication can be hard in relationships — and it's the backbone of "Children of a Lesser God," a movie about two people finding a way to speak to each other. Marlee Matlin plays a deaf janitor and William Hurt is a new teacher at the school where she works. Matlin won an Oscar for her portrayal of the school's most stubborn former student, who may be deaf but opts to also remain mute. She and Hurt are magic together.

'Dirty Dancing' (1987)

Get ready to have the time of your life watching a teenage girl named Baby (Jennifer Grey) blossom after she meets Johnny (Patrick Swayze), a dance instructor at the family summer camp in the Catskills. From music and dancing to a forbidden romance, this one's got it all, wrapped up in a package straight from the 1960s.

'Once' (2007)

Take two struggling musicians over the course of just a few days, bound them together with a song, and you get the irresistible, hard-to-define "Once." Glen Hansard and Markéta Irglová play Guy and Girl, two strangers who bond over their shared love of music. Hansard and Irglová fell in love while filming the movie, a connection the camera captures with heartbreaking realism. It's not often you get to see real love bloom on camera. Don't miss the "Falling Slowly" scene — no surprise the song won an Oscar.

'Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind' (2004)

If you could permanently erase memories of a relationship in order to ease the pain of a breakup, would you? Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet play two people who fall in love – and forget about it – again and again. Some things are meant to be. If only these two could remember that.

The 'Before' Trilogy (1995, 2004, 2013)

The magic ingredient of director Richard Linklater's visionary films? Patience. Just take the trilogy that's become known as the "Before" pictures: "Before Sunrise," "Before Sunset," and "Before Midnight," each starring Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy. They begin the trilogy as strangers who meet on a train to Vienna, fall in love and promise to reunite, and end as a couple with children who still have to decide when to sacrifice dreams for love. This makes for a remarkable series of films, shot over an 18-year period, in which we get to see the characters, and their actors, mature before our eyes.

'Say Anything' (1987)

Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) is not everyone's cup of tea. In the years since he stood in front of Diane's (Ione Skye) bedroom holding a boombox playing Peter Gabriel's "In Your Eyes," reexaminations have suggested he's closer to being a stalker than an amorous, persistent teenager. Watch and decide for yourself if his intentions toward school valedictorian Diane are nothing but earnest and true. He's not the guy her dad approves of, but he is the guy who'll stick around when things hit rock bottom. That's a Dobler kind of love.

'The Lunchbox' (2013)

Can a movie count as a romance if the two leads never spend any time together on screen? You bet. In this delightful, epistolary-based Indian film, young wife Ila (Nimrat Kaur) tries to win the attention of her husband back with elaborate lunches, but her parcel is delivered to the wrong office and ends up with Saajan (the late Irrfan Khan). The two strike up a correspondence that turns to a deep friendship in notes transported via the cooking dishes. Each is at a turning point in their lives. Will they take the leap and turn together? Watch, see and be enchanted.

'The Shop Around the Corner' (1940)

There are many ways for people to fall in love, and not all letters have to be hidden inside lunch tiffins (see above, "The Lunchbox"). Witness "The Shop Around the Corner," a classic starring Jimmy Stewart and Margaret Sullavan as two gift shop workers who absolutely can't stand one another, and yet who fall in love via letter anyway (a caveat: neither knows who they're corresponding with). Yes, this movie was eventually turned into "You've Got Mail" with Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks.

'Moulin Rouge!' (2001)

This mash-up of modern music and early 20th century Parisian culture is a feast for the eyes and heart alike. Nicole Kidman is Satine, the courtesan and star performer at the City of Lights' most legendary club; Ewan McGregor is an aspiring writer who falls in love with her while trying to get his play financed. Breathtaking in its visuals, "Moulin Rouge!" will also stop your heart with its inevitable conclusion.

'The Fault in Our Stars' (2014)

Two teenagers (Ansel Elgort and Shailene Woodley) fall in love while grappline with different stages of cancer. Their romance is brief but intense, as they know their time together might be limited. They dedicate themselves to as much "carpe diem" as possible.

'The Philadelphia Story' (1940)

You can try to find a better, funnier classic rom-com lineup than Cary Grant, Jimmy Stewart and Katharine Hepburn, but you're going to be searching a long time. Hepburn plays Tracy, a divorced heiress about to get remarried to the most boring man on earth (John Howard), while her ex C.K. Dexter Haven (Grant) lurks around looking for his second chance, and two tabloid reporters (Stewart and the luminous Ruth Hussey) threaten to take the antics of the rich public. Witty banter, drunken confessions and true love make this a perfect package. (Bonus: If you like this, give "High Society," with Bing Crosby, Frank Sinatra and Grace Kelly, plus music by Louis Armstrong, a whirl — it's the same story, but with songs!)

'The Big Sick' (2017)

A rom-com based on a real-life love story, written by the couple in questino and starring 1/2 of that couple ( Kumail Nanjiani )? Sign us up! In "Sick," Nanjiani's character (named Kumail) begins dating Zoe Kazan's charcter (Emily), and they have a fun, combative repartee that's over pretty fast, in part due to their cultural conflicts. But when she falls ill and has to be put in a coma, he's the one who sits with her in the hospital and gets to know her family. Then ... she wakes up. To say more is to give too much away, except that it is both sweet without being saccharine and will make you want to squeeze your own sweetie tighter.

'Broadcast News' (1987)

On the one hand, "Broadcast News" is a sweet romantic comedy about a hard-driving news producer (Holly Hunter) whose best pal is a reporter who has a crush on her (Albert Brooks), but who is drawn to the new, fresh-faced, shallow recruit to the station (William Hurt). It's also a prequel of where TV news, and news in general, would head over the next three decades, which also makes it a tragedy. But watch it for the laughs, for Hunter's brilliant performance and the smart way the script tells its story without pandering. It may not end how you think it will, but the journey is very satisfying.

'Groundhog Day' (2013)

A movie that's so well done it's become a quick descriptor for an entire genre: What if you had to relive the same day over, and over again until you got it "right"? In the case of a callow weatherman (Bill Murray), this means finding a way to fall in love with Andie MacDowell's producer Rita, just as she falls in love with him. Along the way, he has enough time to learn languages, become a great dancer, discover that death is no exit in this weird looping world, and to really probably come to hate "I Got You, Babe" by Sonny and Cher.

Randee Dawn (she/her) is an entertainment journalist and author based in Brooklyn. In addition to writing for TODAY.com, Variety and The Los Angeles Times, her debut novel, Tune in Tomorrow , about a reality TV show run by mythic creatures, published in 2022. She's also the co-author of The Law & Order: SVU Unofficial Companion . When not interviewing the stars or dabbling in speculative fiction, she dreams of the next place she can travel to, or cuddles her Westie. More at RandeeDawn.com .

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Leonardo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet, Billy Zane, Kathy Bates, and Frances Fisher in Titanic (1997)

2. Disappearing Acts

The Notebook (2004)

3. The Notebook

Love & Basketball (2000)

4. Love & Basketball

Nia Long, Larenz Tate, and Isaiah Washington in Love Jones (1997)

5. Love Jones

Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost (1990)

7. Sleepless in Seattle

Julie Andrews, Christopher Plummer, Charmian Carr, Angela Cartwright, Duane Chase, Nicholas Hammond, Kym Karath, Heather Menzies-Urich, and Debbie Turner in The Sound of Music (1965)

8. The Sound of Music

Kadeem Hardison and Lark Voorhies in Fire & Ice (2001)

9. Fire & Ice

Jason's Lyric (1994)

10. Jason's Lyric

Robby Benson and Paige O'Hara in Beauty and the Beast (1991)

11. Beauty and the Beast

Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston in The Bodyguard (1992)

12. The Bodyguard

Olivia Newton-John and Juliet Sorci in A Mom for Christmas (1990)

13. A Mom for Christmas

Drew Barrymore in Never Been Kissed (1999)

14. Never Been Kissed

Splash (1983)

16. Nine Months

Michael Douglas and Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct (1992)

17. Basic Instinct

Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer (1998)

18. The Wedding Singer

Antonio Banderas and Angelina Jolie in Original Sin (2001)

19. Original Sin

Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler in 50 First Dates (2004)

20. 50 First Dates

Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)

21. How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days

Demi Moore, Woody Harrelson, and Robert Redford in Indecent Proposal (1993)

22. Indecent Proposal

Eddie Murphy in Coming to America (1988)

23. Coming to America

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24. When Harry Met Sally...

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A Study On The Influence Of Romantic Comedy Films In Cultivating Unrealistic Perception Of People About Love and Relationship

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The concept of romance has changed throughout the centuries. In the past, the ideal of love was expressed through poetry. Love stories were commonly depicted in plays and novels. People read Shakespeare or Jane Austen and formed a concept of love based on chivalry, love at first sight, and damsels in distress saved by the knight in shining armor (Lubomir, et al., 2009). In these days, love and romantic stories are mostly depicted in films. Romantic comedies and chick flicks are the main genres which include these themes. The intended audience is generally women and teenagers. The popularity of these films leads to the thesis statement: People’s perception of love is greatly influenced by films, and this leads to false expectations about “ideal romance.” It has become increasingly apparent to researchers that with its rise in popularity, film and television have become teaching tools for how to behave in society. This ability for the media to shape social interactions, has led many to theorize on how mass media alters the individual. Two of these theories are: cultivation theory (Gerbener, et al.) and social cognitive theory (Bandura). “Social cognitive theory suggests that individuals may actively observe media portrayals of behaviors in romantic relationships for insight into how they themselves could behave in their own relationships”.

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The Best British Romance Movies

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Jane Austen is a British national treasure, giving Brits special claim to the romantic movie genre she very nearly invented. This list ranks the best British romance movies, and includes two films connected to Austen in very different ways.  First, there is the stellar adaptation of Austen’s masterpiece Pride and Prejudice starring Kiera Knightley. Then you have Bridget Jones’ Diary starring Renee Zellweger and very loosely based on Austen’s Pride and Prejudice . Both films have Mr. Darcy’s.   

Also on this list of British romance movies are the delightful Four Weddings and a Funeral , Notting Hill and Love Actually (all starring Hugh Grant!).

What is your favorite British love movie?  Join our other romance junkies and give the most romantic British films on this list a thumbs up, or send a love note in the comment section below.

Pride and Prejudice

Pride and Prejudice

Pride & Prejudice , a timeless classic by Jane Austen, artfully showcases the essence of British cinema and romance. The captivating tale of the headstrong Elizabeth Bennet and her complex relationship with the brooding Mr. Darcy is brilliantly portrayed through wit, societal expectations, and the intricacies of human nature. The stunning countryside settings and lavish costumes evoke a sense of nostalgia, while the innate charm of the characters evokes the quintessential British humour, making this film an unforgettable journey of love, pride, and prejudice. Its enduring legacy lies in its ability to resonate with audiences across generations while retaining its quintessentially British essence.

  • Released : 2005
  • Directed by : Joe Wright

Sense and Sensibility

Sense and Sensibility

As one of the best British romance movies, Sense and Sensibility masterfully weaves the vulnerable and passionate emotions of love within the constraints of refined English society. Delicately balancing the rational and emotional aspects of human relationships, the film presents the complexity of love and longing through the experiences of the Dashwood sisters. The stunning portrayal of period fashion, landscape, and dialogue in this adaptation of yet another beloved Austen novel effectively combines British elegance with the tenderness and vulnerability of romance. The film's exploration of love in various forms and its subtle nuances within the framework of social propriety make it a truly exceptional British romance classic.

  • Released : 1995
  • Directed by : Ang Lee

About Time

About Time is a heartwarming and enchanting example of British cinema and romance as it explores the complexities of love, family, and the power of time travel. This uniquely charming narrative effortlessly captures the quintessentially British quirkiness and wit, while simultaneously delving deep into the universal themes of love, loss, and the significance of cherishing each moment. The vibrant and eccentric characters invite the audience into a world of warmth, whimsy, and the irresistible allure of true love. About Time 's distinctive blend of romance, comedy, and a touch of science fiction makes it a delightful and poignant addition to the pantheon of great British romance films.

  • Released : 2013
  • Directed by : Richard Curtis

Love Actually

Love Actually

Love Actually is a quintessentially British romance film that skillfully weaves together a myriad of love stories, showcasing the various forms of love and its complexities within contemporary London society. The ensemble cast, featuring some of Britain's finest actors, brings life to this delightful tapestry of interconnected tales, each delivering their own passionate and heartfelt performances. Embodying the spirit of the holiday season, the film not only highlights the warmth and humor of British sensibilities but also illuminates the tender and often messy aspects of love and relationships. Love Actually remains an enduring and beloved classic in the realm of British romance cinema, as it showcases the beauty, vulnerability, and universality of love against the backdrop of London's enchanting charm.

  • Released : 2003

Notting Hill

Notting Hill

Notting Hill is a heartwarming exploration of love blossoming in unexpected places, showcasing the charm of British cinema and romantic relationships. Set within the picturesque streets of one of London's most iconic neighborhoods, the film captures the essence of British wit and sensibilities, while weaving an enchanting tale of two people from vastly different worlds coming together. The chemistry between Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant, the leads, embodies the tender vulnerability and enchanting optimism typical of romantic stories, highlighting the beauty of overcoming barriers for love. Notting Hill 's combination of humor, heartache, and idyllic settings makes it a beloved classic in the genre of British romance films.

  • Released : 1999
  • Directed by : Roger Michell

Bridget Jones’s Diary

Bridget Jones’s Diary

Bridget Jones's Diary is a delightful British romantic comedy that combines the quirkiness of British humor with the heartwarming charm of falling in love. Through the relatable and endearing character of Bridget, played masterfully by Renée Zellweger, the film explores themes such as self-discovery, unrequited love, and the transformative power of finding the right person. The film's witty dialogue, quirky situations, and realistic portrayal of modern love resonate universally, making it a heartening tribute to British cinema. Bridget Jones's Diary stands out as a memorable romantic comedy that resonates with audiences worldwide, showcasing the elegant and honest nature of British romance.

  • Released : 2001
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1. the positive effects of movies on human behaviour by ajay rathod, 2. horror movies by emanuel briggs, 3. casablanca – the greatest hollywood movie ever (author unknown).

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5. Blockbuster movies create booms for tourism — and headaches for locals by Shubhangi Goel

  • 6. Moonage Daydream: “Who Is He? What Is He?” by Jonathan Romney
  • 7. La Bamba: American Dreaming, Chicano Style by Yolanda Machado

1. My Favorite Movie

2. movies genres, 3. special effects in movies, 4. what do you look for in a movie, 5. the evolution of movies.

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“​​Films encourage us to take action. Our favourite characters, superheroes, teach us life lessons. They give us ideas and inspiration to do everything for the better instead of just sitting around, waiting for things to go their way. Films about famous personalities are the perfect way to affect social behaviour positively. Films are a source of knowledge. They can help learn what’s in the trend, find out more about ancient times, or fill out some knowledge gaps.”

In this movie essay, Rathod gives readers three ways watching movies can positively affect us. Movie writers, producers, and directors use their platform to teach viewers life skills, the importance of education, and the contrast between good and evil. Watching movies can also help us improve critical thinking, according to Briggs. Not only do movies entertain us, but they also have many educational benefits. You might also be interested in these  essays about consumerism .

“Many people involving children and adults can effect with their sleeping disturbance and anxiety. Myths, non-realistic, fairy tales could respond differently with being in the real world. Horror movies bring a lot of excitement and entertainment among you and your family. Horror movies can cause physical behavior changes in a person by watching the films. The results of watching horror movies shows that is has really effect people whether you’re an adult, teens, and most likely happens during your childhood.”

In his essay, Briggs acknowledges why people enjoy horror movies so much but warns of their adverse effects on viewers. Most commonly, they cause viewers nightmares, which may cause anxiety and sleep disorders. He focuses on the films’ effects on children, whose more sensitive, less developed brains may respond with worse symptoms, including major trauma. The films can affect all people negatively, but children are the most affected.

“This was the message of Casablanca in late 1942. It was the ideal opportunity for America to utilize its muscles and enter the battle. America was to end up the hesitant gatekeeper of the entire world. The characters of Casablanca, similar to the youthful Americans of the 1960s who stick headed the challenge development, are ‘genuine Americans’ lost in a hostile region, battling to open up another reality.”

In this essay, the author discusses the 1942 film  Casablanca , which is said to be the greatest movie ever made, and explains why it has gotten this reputation. To an extent, the film’s storyline, acting, and even relatability (it was set during World War II) allowed it to shine from its release until the present. It invokes feelings of bravery, passion, and nostalgia, which is why many love the movie. You can also check out these  books about adaption . 

4.   Dune Review: An Old Story Reshaped For The New 2021 Audience by Oren Cohen

“Lady Jessica is a powerful woman in the original book, yet her interactions with Paul diminish her as he thinks of her as slow of thought. Something we don’t like to see in 2021 — and for a good reason. Every book is a product of its time, and every great storyteller knows how to adapt an old story to a new audience. I believe Villeneuve received a lot of hate from diehard Dune fans for making these changes, but I fully support him.”

Like the previous essay, Cohen reviews a film, in this case, Denis Villeneuve’s  Dune , released in 2021. He praises the film, writing about its accurate portrayal of the epic’s vast, dramatic scale, music, and, interestingly, its ability to portray the characters in a way more palatable to contemporary audiences while staying somewhat faithful to the author’s original vision. Cohen enjoyed the movie thoroughly, saying that the movie did the book justice. 

“Those travelers added around 630 million New Zealand dollars ($437 million) to the country’s economy in 2019 alone, the tourism authority told CNBC. A survey by the tourism board, however, showed that almost one in five Kiwis are worried that the country attracts too many tourists. Overcrowding at tourist spots, lack of infrastructure, road congestion and environmental damage are creating tension between locals and visitors, according to a 2019 report by Tourism New Zealand.”

The locations where successful movies are filmed often become tourist destinations for fans of those movies. Goel writes about how “film tourism” affects the residents of popular filming locations. The environment is sometimes damaged, and the locals are caught off guard. Though this is not always the case, film tourism is detrimental to the residents and ecosystem of these locations. You can also check out these  essays about The Great Gatsby .

6. Moonage Daydream:  “Who Is He? What Is He?” by Jonathan Romney

“Right from the start, Brett Morgen’s  Moonage Daydream  (2022) catches us off guard. It begins with an epigraph musing on Friedrich Nietzsche’s proclamation that “God is dead,” then takes us into deep space and onto the surface of the moon. It then unleashes an image storm of rockets, robots, and star-gazers, and rapid-fire fragments of early silent cinema, 1920s science fiction, fifties cartoons, and sixties and seventies newsreel footage, before lingering on a close-up of glittery varnish on fingernails.” 

Moonage Daydream  is a feature film containing never-before-seen footage of David Bowie. In this essay, Romney delves into the process behind creating the movie and how the footage was captured. It also looks at the director’s approach to creating a structured and cohesive film, which took over two years to plan. This essay looks at how Bowie’s essence was captured and preserved in this movie while displaying the intricacies of his mind.

7. La Bamba:  American Dreaming, Chicano Style by Yolanda Machado

“A traumatic memory, awash in hazy neutral tones, arising as a nightmare. Santo & Johnny’s mournful “Sleep Walk” playing. A sudden death, foreshadowing the passing of a star far too young. The opening sequence of Luis Valdez’s  La Bamba  (1987) feels like it could be from another film—what follows is largely a celebration of life and music.”

La Bamba  is a well-known movie about a teenage Mexican migrant who became a rock ‘n’ roll star. His rise to fame is filled with difficult social dynamics, and the star tragically dies in a plane crash at a young age. In this essay, Machado looks at how the tragic death of the star is presented to the viewer, foreshadowing the passing of the young star before flashing back to the beginning of the star’s career. Machado analyses the storyline and directing style, commenting on the detailed depiction of the young star’s life. It’s an in-depth essay that covers everything from plot to writing style to direction.

5 Prompts for Essays About Movies

Simple and straightforward, write about your favorite movie. Explain its premise, characters, and plot, and elaborate on some of the driving messages and themes behind the film. You should also explain why you enjoy the movie so much: what impact does it have on you? Finally, answer this question in your own words for an engaging piece of writing.

From horror to romance, movies can fall into many categories. Choose one of the main genres in cinema and discuss the characteristics of movies under that category. Explain prevalent themes, symbols, and motifs, and give examples of movies belonging to your chosen genre. For example, horror movies often have underlying themes such as mental health issues, trauma, and relationships falling apart. 

Without a doubt, special effects in movies have improved drastically. Both practical and computer-generated effects produce outstanding, detailed effects to depict situations most would consider unfathomable, such as the vast space battles of the  Star Wars  movies. Write about the development of special effects over the years, citing evidence to support your writing. Be sure to detail key highlights in the history of special effects. 

Movies are always made to be appreciated by viewers, but whether or not they enjoy them varies, depending on their preferences. In your essay, write about what you look for in a “good” movie in terms of plot, characters, dialogue, or anything else. You need not go too in-depth but explain your answers adequately. In your opinion, you can use your favorite movie as an example by writing about the key characteristics that make it a great movie.

Essays About Movies: The evolution of movies

From the silent black-and-white movies of the early 1900s to the vivid, high-definition movies of today, times have changed concerning movies. Write about how the film industry has improved over time. If this topic seems too broad, feel free to focus on one aspect, such as cinematography, themes, or acting.

For help with your essays, check out our round-up of the  best essay checkers .

If you’re looking for more ideas, check out our  essays about music topic guide !

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  • Love stories in period romance movies are universal, whether set in Regency or World War eras.
  • Bridgerton 's success shows TV's take on period romance, but movies truly define the genre.
  • From Brokeback Mountain to The Notebook , iconic period romances touch hearts and captivate.

Period romance movies are some of the most astounding pieces of cinema, and many are universally understandable, no matter what time period they are set in. Period romances make up a large chunk of the best movies of all time , and while they are often remembered for their beautiful visual styling and powerful cast performances, the element of romance is what makes them so popular. Generally, the best period piece movies typically include some form of relationship storyline, although this isn’t an exclusive rule.

No matter when a film is set, there is always the potential for a love story. A lot of these frequently take place in the Regency era or during one of the World Wars, and while these are very successful, several others use a varied range of settings and chunks of history. TV shows have recently taken over the period romance, too, and titles like Bridgerton have become raging successes, drawing audiences in with tales of passion in the face of adversity. However, it’s the movies that truly define the genre.

Bridgerton, the 1995 Pride and Prejudice, and The Tudors

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15 Brokeback Mountain (2006)

A secret relationship between two shepherds, brokeback mountain.

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Brokeback Mountain is an iconic period title and a groundbreaking piece of LGBTQ+ representation in movies . Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal both offer brilliant performances as the two cowboys, and the emergence of their love story during a trip together is groundbreaking. As the decades pass and the two try to move on from one another, marry women, and carry on with their lives, it’s hard not to be heartbroken for them. The complexity of their relationship in a Western backdrop is beautifully unique, and Brokeback Mountain will forever be a timeless classic.

14 Titanic (1997)

Society & class can't stand in the way of love.

Titanic poster

The Oscar-winning Titanic combines a true story and fiction to create a legendary tale of class divide and romance. Many are jealous of Jack and Rose’s blossoming love, but the film’s devastating end simply makes their relationship even more precious.

Titanic ’s incredible special effects are also worth mentioning, and James Cameron’s skills are absolutely spectacular throughout. The contrast between the working class and the wealthy is an important theme in Titanic , but Jack and Rose’s whirlwind romance, which is free of judgment or expectations, is the true motivator of the film.

13 Pearl Harbor (2001)

A love triangle like no other, pearl harbor (2001).

It’s not unusual for period romance films to focus on a love triangle, but Pearl Harbor stunningly tackles the topic. The war drama movie is set during the titular event, but despite being surrounded by death and destruction, the complicated relationship between best friends and first lieutenants Rafe and Danny and nurse Evelyn takes center stage. Even though Pearl Harbor isn’t the most historically accurate, it is praised for its beautiful visual effects and enthralling story about balancing feelings and duty, set during one of World War II’s worst attacks.

12 The Notebook (2004)

Letters from the past, the notebook.

The Notebook is the ultimate example of enemies-to-lovers in movies . Noah and Allie’s turbulent relationship in the lead-up to World War II is extremely profound, especially considering that audiences already know what their future will look like.

The Notebook continues to be one of the best movies ever.

The Notebook spans several decades as Noah and Allie grow older, and Noah recounts their story to the residents of their nursing home. Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams, as the younger versions of the characters in this cult classic, are absolutely astounding throughout and are the main reason why The Notebook continues to be one of the best movies ever.

Ryan Gosling; Rachel McAdams; Gena Rowlands; James Garner

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11 A Room With A View (1986)

A holiday romance, a room with a view (1985).

A Room with a View is one of Helena Bonham Carter’s best movies , and her breakthrough role as Lucy Honeychurch is an excellent example of her varied talents as an actress. Lucy’s difficulty in choosing between her fiancé in England and the handsome new vacationer she meets is a compelling narrative, but the picturesque cinematography throughout A Room with a View makes it even more romantic. A Room with a View also has an especially strong cast outside of Carter, including titans of the film industry like Maggie Smith and Daniel Day-Lewis.

10 Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon (2000)

A martial arts love story, crouching tiger, hidden dragon.

Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon looks at the passion between warriors Li and Yu in Qing Dynasty China. Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon is much more than a romance film, however, and it also has a focus on martial arts and swordsmanship.

Li and Yu’s romance isn’t all positive, though, but the conflict they face after losing the 400-year-old Green Destiny sword raises the stakes for them hugely. The movie is the recipient of an astonishing three Academy Award wins, which is no surprise, considering its action-packed sequences and profound and delicate scenes between the main characters.

Custom image of Maggie Cheung (Hero) & Takeshi Kaneshiro (House of Flying Daggers)

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9 My Fair Lady (1964)

The power of a makeover, my fair lady.

Eight-time Oscar winner My Fair Lady stars one of the greatest classic Hollywood actors ever, Audrey Hepburn, as Eliza Doolittle. The highly successful Broadway adaptation focuses on Eliza’s transformation into a member of high society, thanks to the assistance of Professor Henry Higgins. Eliza and Henry don’t click immediately; if anything, they clash at first, but that’s why their love story is so realistic. While their romance is important, My Fair Lady is one of the best musical movies of all time because of Alan Jay Lerner’s legendary soundtrack and well-planned song and dance numbers.

8 Little Women (2019)

Sibling rivalry standing in the way of love, little women.

There have been several adaptations of Little Women , but Greta Gerwig’s 2019 version is the best. The film jumps across a non-linear narrative to show the lives of four sisters in the aftermath of the Civil War, and while romance isn’t the primary focus, it’s a big factor. Laurie and Amy’s interactions are often awkward, but they’re easy to invest in. One of the best scenes is Amy’s desperate monologue about her place in society, which doesn’t seem to be very romantic initially, but it highlights how she wants Laurie to love her for her, not because of Jo’s rejection.

Greta Gerwig also directed Lady Bird (2017) and Barbie (2023)

7 Carol (2015)

Fighting back against the times and prejudice.

Carol is a period romance film that differs from many other titles because of its focus on a relationship between two women. Set in the 1950s, Carol follows department store worker Therese and her affair with the titular character.

Carol and Therese’s feelings are controversial because of the film’s era and the fact that they’re homosexual, which makes the consequences of their actions even more risky, and that’s even before Carol’s custody battle is taken into account. Cate Blanchett’s portrayal of Carol is particularly notable, especially as it has resulted in one of her four Oscar nominations for Best Actress.

Cate Blanchett as Carol

Carol follows the ups and downs of the love affair between Carol Aird and Therese Belivet, but the 2015 movie's ending leaves room for interpretation.

6 The English Patient (1996)

The memory of love is just as good as the real thing, the english patient.

Anthony Minghella’s The English Patient is about Ralph Fiennes’ Laszlo Almásy and his struggle to remember his identity after his plane is shot down during World War II. The power of flashbacks is a crucial element in The English Patient, and as the enigmatic man starts to remember and share the intricate details of a long-forgotten love affair to his nurse, Hana, a sweet bond between the pair begins to form. The English Patient is the first film ever to win an Oscar for Best Editing, which makes sense, considering how powerful the story is.

5 Shakespeare In Love (1998)

The fictional story of how romeo & juliet was written, shakespeare in love.

Shakespeare in Love provides one of the best performances of Gwyneth Paltrow’s career as Viola, the fictional mistress of literary genius William Shakespeare. The film is set in 1593 London and focuses on the titular character suffering from writer’s block, but Viola proves to be a worthy distraction. Shakespeare in Love ’s relationship storyline relies on humor just as much as theatrics, which is refreshing. Viola and William’s narrative is heartwarming, but the film’s true love story is really Shakespeare reigniting his passion for writing. Despite its controversial Oscar campaign, Shakespeare in Love is a charming rom-com overall.

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4 The Sound Of Music (1965)

Singing can be a great distraction, the sound of music.

The Sound of Music presents romance in multiple ways: romantic, familial, and even love for oneself. Julie Andrews's most memorable role is as Maria, the governess of a group of rowdy yet adorable children. Amongst the chaos of World War I and the keeping of the von Trapp kids in line, Maria falls for their father, Georg. The Sound of Music ’s legendary soundtrack plays a big part in the story too, and while it seems odd to sing when facing a Nazi invasion, Maria’s beautiful voice reassures everyone around her and woos Georg.

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3 Moulin Rouge! (2001)

Old school love with a modern score, moulin rouge.

Set in Paris at the start of the 20th century, Moulin Rouge! is best remembered for its brilliant scoring, but also for its intriguing story about a poet and cabaret star who fall in love. Nicole Kidman and Ewan McGregor are unusual choices to be the leads of a musical, but the pair are fabulous as Satine and Christian. Kidman’s performance is especially strong, and she is very deserving of her Academy Award nomination for Best Actress. Watching their feelings blossom is great fun, but it’s even better with Moulin Rouge! ’s modern soundtrack , remixed to reflect the era.

Set in Paris at the start of the 20th century, Moulin Rouge! is best remembered for its brilliant scoring, but also for its intriguing story about a poet and cabaret star who fall in love.

2 Pride & Prejudice (2005)

Enduring mutual respect and love, pride & prejudice (2005).

Pride & Prejudice introduces the original grumpy male romantic lead, and in the 2005 version of Jane Austen’s novel, Matthew Macfayden fantastically encapsulates Mr. Darcy’s energy. His rapport with Keira Knightley’s Elizabeth Bennet is spectacular and true to the film’s source material, and both actors receive significant applause for their chemistry.

The tension and conflict that arise as their relationship progresses is heavy, but the repetitive bickering and clashing between the two make their eventual love worth it. Although there are many movie and TV adaptations of Pride & Prejudice , Knightley and Macfayden are definitely the best Bennet and Darcy.

1 Sense And Sensibility (1995)

Heartbreak is temporary, sense and sensibility (1995).

Sense and Sensibility is written by and stars the extremely talented Emma Thompson as Elinor Dashwood. However, the true love story is Kate Winslet as Marianne Dashwood and her desperate hope that Greg Wise’s John Willoughby will marry her.

19th-century relationships are complicated enough because of societal standards, but the pressure Marianne and Elinor face to marry for financial security makes things even harder for the sisters. While Marianne and Willoughby don’t end up together, which is an unusual ending for a period romance movie , their time together, most importantly, teaches Marianne that heartbreak isn’t permanent.

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Romantic movies set unrealistic standards

Jack Casey , Staff Writer February 15, 2017

Ah, romance. We are surrounded by it on a day-to-day basis. Whether it is found in our homes or in some other setting such as social media, everyone has their own idea of what a realistic relationship consists of. I, however, cannot imagine anyone envisioning what is displayed of romance in television and film. As media plays a massive role in our lives today, these films can create a fabricated expectation of love for both males and females that can have a lasting effect.

Efforts by scientists and psychologists to investigate the movies have produced shocking results. Dr. Bjarne Holmes, who led research on the topic at Heriot Watt University, believes Hollywood films create a false image of what love is like.

Holmes’ study conducted research on 40 romantic movies that were released between 1995 and 2005. They found, to no one’s surprise, that the films depicted unattainable displays of love. These movies implied that love is something that is automatically known, rather than established through time. Films studied showed love was conveyed through little to no communication between the two people who are supposedly “in love”, which is just not a reality.

Contrary to the common belief of the romantic movies that are released every year, love is not formed at first sight, it is something that needs time to develop. There are hardships in any relationship. Any movie that depicts otherwise is incorrect. When these movies suggest that romance is established without any struggle or controversy, they are giving impressionable children or young adults false expectations.

Hollywood’s attempts to sell false portrayals of love to us are no surprise. Everyone wants a perfect love. A significant other that they know will be there for them no matter what. So, in turn, Hollywood provides movies that depict the perfect love scenario in order to have people pay to see their movies. Hollywood provides what the viewer wants, so the profit in this production is, no doubt, huge.

Media consumption is an unavoidable matter in this day and age. It is imperative that viewers or people in relationships understand what is realistic in love and what is not. Romances depicted in these movies are enjoyable to fantasize about, but impossible to attain. Romantic movies fail to display the intangible parts of love that make it the roller coaster journey that it is.

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Zoe Bachelder • Jul 27, 2020 at 7:52 pm

Honestly, I agree with most of this article but to be quite fair romantic movies don’t really set such high standards. Now, I know they all have their ups and downs, but I think they show us that you really have to fight to be with the one you love; The Notebook for example. Noah and Allie lost touch and she was even engaged to another man, but they found each other and fell in love again. They fought a lot throughout the movie and should have broken up multiple times but didn’t. They fought for one another and honestly, it was inspiring. No love is going to be perfect, but if you really love each other you’ll do whatever it takes; that’s true love.

30 Iconic Bromances From Movies And TV Shows

Brotherly love.

Zach Galifianakis, Bradley Cooper and Ed Helms in The Hangover

If there is anything more irresistible in entertainment than romance, it has to be bromance. A bond between male friends almost as strong as a love between life partners is truly a beautiful thing, which is why it has been a staple in pop culture for decades. If you cannot take our word for it, just take a look at these essential, world-famous duos from movies and TV shows as proof.

Bert and Ernie on Sesame Street

Bert And Ernie (Sesame Street)

There are Sesame Street characters whom we love on their own, such as Big Bird and Elmo, and then are those we cannot separate from one another, particularly Bert and Ernie. Some have theorized that the roommates are really in a romantic relationship , but that could also just be a sign of just how strong their "bromantic" relationship is. 

Alex Winter and Keanu Reeves

Bill And Ted (Bill & Ted Movies)

The aspiring San Dimas-based musicians known as Wyld Stallyns — Ted “Theodore” Logan ( Keanu Reeves ) and Bill S Preston, Esq. ( Alex Winter ) — have a friendship defined by a philosophy to be excellent to each other and “party on, dude!” It is no wonder that the time-traveling pair from the Bill & Ted movies went on to make music that ensured a most non-heinous future.

Bob Hope and Bing Crosby in Road to Bali

Bing Crosby And Bob Hope (Road To… Movies)

Throughout and 1940s to the early 1960s, the multi-talented Bing Crosby and comedy legend Bob Hope were one of Hollywood’s most dynamic duos, appearing in several hilarious adventure movies together and as a different set of characters each time. The Road To … movies, as they came to be collectively known, would also star Dorothy Lamour to help add a little romance among the road trip comedies ’ central bromance. 

Robert Redford and Paul Newman in Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid

Butch And Sundance (Butch Cassidy And The Sundance Kid)

While undisputed legends of cinema on their own, some would say that Paul Newman and Robert Redford were at their best when sharing the screen together. Case in point, their eponymous roles as a pair of desperate outlaws on the run in early 1900s Wyoming from 1969’s Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid .

Matt LeBlanc and Matthew Perry on Friends

Chandler And Joey (Friends)

Some use their Max subscription to revisit Ross and Rachel’s bumpy relationship or Chandler and Monica’s aspirational romance , but I think the beloved sitcom’s most essential couple is Chandler and Joey. With how seamlessly they maintain a close bond even after their tenure as roommates ends, could there be a better duo in the Friends cast than Matt LeBlanc and Matthew Perry ’s characters?

Rider Strong and Ben Savage on Boy Meets World

Cory And Shawn (Boy Meets World)

The transition from adolescence all the way to adulthood is a profoundly challenging time that's hard to survive without help from friends — something the Boy Meets World cast demonstrated beautifully. This is especially true in the way Cory Matthews (Ben Savage) and Shawn Hunter (Rider Strong) relied on each other for support almost completely without fail, despite coming from entirely different walks of life.  

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Crockett And Tubbs (Miami Vice)

In the ‘80s, there was no cop pairing on TV cooler than James “Sonny” Crockett (Don Johnson) and Ricardo “Rico” Tubbs (Philip Michael Thomas) on Miami Vice . The detectives’ unexpected collaboration in the pilot turned into a trusting partnership against drug trafficking and other crimes that lasted five years.

Josh Peck and Drake Bell on Drake & Josh

Drake And Josh (Drake & Josh)

The titular teens from this popular Nickelodeon sitcom are the only duo on our list of bromances who are actually brothers… legally, that is. If their respective mother and father had not married, Drake (Drake Bell) and Josh ( Oppenheimer cast member Josh Peck) — who could not have been more different upon meeting — might not have become so inseparable.

Richard Pryor and Gene Wilder in Silver Streak

George And Grover (Silver Streak)

In one of the best movies set on a train , 1976’s Silver Streak , book editor George Caldwell (Gene Wilder) finds himself forcibly marooned when he witnesses a murder that he is later accused of. His only hope to make it back on board to his new lover (Jill Clayburgh) is street smart thief Grover T. Muldoon (Richard Pryor) in the first of many beloved collaborations by the comedy legends.

Paul Dano and Daniel Radcliffe in Swiss Army Man

Hank And Manny (Swiss Army Man)

Before Best Picture Oscar winner Everything Everywhere All At Once made them household names, filmmaking duo DANIELS made their feature-length debut with another great A24 movie about a friendship like no other. The title of 2016’s Swiss Army Man refers to the inexplicable arsenal of magical abilities that reanimated corpse Manny ( Daniel Radcliffe ) possesses, which helps Hank ( Paul Dano ) survive the wilderness in this hilarious, highly inventive fantasy adventure.

John Cho and Kal Penn screaming in Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle

Harold And Kumar (Harold And Kumar Movies)

Whether they are desperate for some fast food, desperate to flee prison, or desperate to save Christmas, Harold Lee (John Cho) and Kumar Patel (Kal Penn) stick by each other through thick and thin. We would love to see another Harold and Kumar movie just to see more of the stoner buddies’ friendship continue to thrive.

Jim Carrey and Jeff Daniels make ridiculous faces in loud tuxedos in Dumb and Dumber.

Harry And Lloyd (Dumb And Dumber)

As Jeff Daniels recalled on Off Camera with Sam Jones , Jim Carrey had already been cast as Lloyd Christmas in the Farrelly Brothers' classic 1994 comedy, Dumb and Dumber , and had to fight to get and keep Daniels a Harry Dunne -- a role the studio wanted a real comedian for. Casting the actor -- primarily known for drama -- resulted in a beautiful onscreen bond that made these otherwise hopelessly infantile pals hard not to like.

Rupert Grint and Daniel Radcliffe in Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

Harry And Ron (Harry Potter Franchise)

The Harry Potter movies (and books that inspired them) have one of pop culture’s strongest trios in the titular wizard (Daniel Radcliffe), Ron Weasley (Rupert Grint), and Hermione Granger (Emma Watson). However, the group’s core bromance may be even more iconic on its own in the astonishing loyalty Harry and Ron have toward one another and the way they bring out each other’s best qualities.

Robert Downey Jr and Jude Law as Sherlock and Watson in Sherlock Holmes

Holmes And Watson (Sherlock Holmes)

Out of the various onscreen iterations of Sir Arthur Conan Doyle’s Sherlock Holmes and Dr. John Watson, Robert Downey Jr. and Jude Law’s versions may be the most definitive. The Guy Ritchie movies depict the detective and his flatmate/assistant/biographer as almost more than friends with genuine affection for one another despite their constant bickering.

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Jay And Silent Bob (Various)

The shared universe of Kevin Smith movies that include Clerks , Chasing Amy , and more is anchored by its two most important, most dynamic, and most hilarious characters: Jay (Jason Mewes) and Silent Bob (Smith). Usually stoned and rarely seen doing much of anything productive, the inseparable pair have still managed to make a lasting impression on pop culture even beyond the View Askewniverse without saying much, in Bob’s case at least.

Donald Faison and Zach Braff on Scrubs

J.D. And Turk (Scrubs)

One of the first times I ever heard the word “bromance” was by Zach Braff’s Dr. John “J.D.” Dorian to describe his relationship with his longtime friend and colleague, Dr. Christopher Turk (Donald Faison). Rarely have a pair of sitcom characters reflected the term so definitively and it helps that the Scrubs cast members have reunited on camera in recent years, as reflected in their T-Mobile ads lately.

Kel Mitchell and Kenan Thompson on Kenan & Kel

Kenan And Kel (Kenan & Kel)

It was not until I recently rewatched Kenan & Kel that I realized these classic Nickelodeon characters (played by All That ’s Kenan Thompson and Kel Mitchell, who are reuniting for Good Burger 2 ) had such an aspirational relationship. Only friends who truly wholeheartedly care for one another would be able to put with up the insurmountable trouble they get each into on a regular basis.

Will Smith and Martin Lawrence in Bad Boys

Mike And Marcus (Bad Boys)

Detective Mike Lowery (Will Smith) is a well-to-do player, while his partner, Marcus Burnett (Martin Lawrence), is a committed family man. What makes the heroes of the Bad Boys movies ( which have a fourth installment on the way ) such a strong pair despite their different lifestyles is a shared commitment to fighting crime, even if it means breaking a few rules.

The main characters in Vegas.

Mike And Trent (Swingers)

When struggling actor Mike (writer Jon Favreau) is dumped by his longtime girlfriend, his buddy, Trent (Vince Vaughn), goes out of his way to help him get back on his feet. It is this strong inclusion of supportive friendship as a central theme amid the raunchy comedy that makes director Doug Liman’s Swingers so “money.” 

Mel Gibson and Danny Glover in Lethal Weapon 2

Murtaugh And Riggs (Lethal Weapon)

While buddy cop action films had already existed before the Lethal Weapon movies did, director Richard Donner’s 1987 classic is easily the most quintessential example. If not for the brotherly bond between the otherwise unlikely pairing of widowed, sharp-shooting maverick Martin Riggs (Mel Gibson) and by-the-book veteran detective Roger Murtaugh (Danny Glover), the film might not have spawned a four-part franchise. 

Cheech & Chong in Up in Smoke

Pedro And Man (Cheech & Chong's Up In Smoke)

The many stoner buddies on our list likely would have never existed if not for Cheech Marin and Thomas Chong — the legendary comedy duo collectively known as Cheech & Chong. In their most esteemed cinematic achievement (and one of the best ‘70s movies ), 1978’s Up in Smoke , they star as the motor-mouth Pedro (Marin) and slower-witted “Man” (Chong), who become fast friends and, eventually, bandmates over their mutual admiration for  greens .

Jason Segel and Paul Rudd in I Love You, Man

Peter And Sydney (I Love You, Man)

When straight-laced real estate agent Peter Klaven (Paul Rudd) gets engaged, he suddenly realizes that he has no male friends to ask to be his best man, but finds the perfect choice instantly in outspoken investor, Sydney Fife (Jason Segel). I Love You Man was Rudd’s third collaboration with Segel and it certainly shows in how seamlessly their chemistry meshes in this instant classic “bromantic comedy.”

Jonah Hill and Channing Tatum in 21 Jump Street

Schmidt And Jenko (21 Jump Street)

While they were enemies in high school, when Morton Schmidt (Jonah Hill) and Greg Jenko (Channing Tatum) reunite at the police academy, they become brothers. Their new kinship certainly comes in handy when they soon have to go undercover as teenage siblings when leading the cinematic 21 Jump Street cast in 2012.

Simon Pegg and Nick Frost in Shaun of the Dead

Shaun And Ed (Shaun Of The Dead)

Real life best friends and flatmates Simon Pegg and Nick Frost made their film debuts together playing best friends and flatmates in the classic horror-comedy movie , 2004’s Shaun of the Dead . Said friendship between our title hero (Pegg) and the aimless Ed (Frost), is not without its dysfunctions, but strong enough to survive a zombie apocalypse, even when one succumbs to a bite.

James Roday Rodriguez and Dulé Hill in Season 8 of Psych screenshot

Shawn And Gus (Psych)

Charming con artist Shawn Spencer (James Roday Rodriguez) has been best friends with the nervous Burton “Gus” Guster (Dulé Hill) since they were children, as seen in nearly every cold open from the long-running USA dramedy, Psych . That likely explains why, despite Gus’ reluctance, he becomes Shawn’s business partner after convincing the Santa Barbara police that he is psychic.

SpongeBob and Patrick in The SpongeBob Movie: Sponge On The Run

SpongeBob And Patrick (SpongeBob Squarepants)

With the exception of Squidward, anyone would be lucky to have a friend like SpongeBob Squarepants ( voiced by Tom Kenny ) — case in point, his life-long pal and neighbor, Patrick Star (Bill Fagerbakke). The square, yellow fry cook does not just accept the dim-witted starfish for who he is, but is almost oblivious to anything beyond his positive character traits, which is something I think everyone hopes to find in a friend.

Bucky and Steve in Captain America: The First Avenger.

Steve And Bucky (Marvel Cinematic Universe)

Before he received the chance to become Captain America, the only person who ever believed in Steve Rogers’ (Chris Evans) potential as a hero was his good friend, James Buchanon “Bucky” Barnes. After Bucky was discovered decades later to be a brainwashed assassin, Steve returned the favor by fighting for his protection, even if that meant antagonizing his fellow Avengers in one of the best Marvel movies , Captain America: Civil War .

Donald Glover and Danny Pudi on Community

Troy And Abed (Community)

It is not very common for a college student (even a community college student) to find a friend who brings out your inner child, but Troy Barnes (Donald Glover) and Abed Nadir (Danny Pudi) are a clear and most heartwarming exception. From participating in intense “Floor Is Lava” challenges, to hosting their own imaginary talk show, and more of their iconic Community moments , this duo defined the kind of friendship you hope to find once you reach adulthood and, together, were the heart and soul of Greendale.

Marshall, Ted, and Barney on How I Met Your Mother

Ted, Marshall, And Barney (How I Met Your Mother)

There are not very many trios in this list, but there was no way we were going to exclude all three of the inseparable boys from the How I Met Your Mother cast . While Ted Mosby (Josh Radnor) has a longer history with Marshal Eriksen (Jason Segel) and Barney Stinson (Neil Patrick Harris) had his selfish tendencies, you could argue that he really did help teach his bros “how to live,” even if they were reluctant to take his advice most of the time.

The Wolf Pack from The Hangover

Phil, Stu, Alan, And Doug (The Hangover)

Even though they are partially to blame for Doug Billings’ (Justin Bartha) disappearance during his bachelor party, Alan’s claim that he, Phil Wenneck (Bradley Cooper), and Stu Price (Ed Helms) are the “three best friends that anyone could have” is not so incorrect, considering the trouble they endure for his benefit in The Hangover . Though we see most of the main trio in this blockbuster comedy , it would be wrong to not count Doug as part of The Wolfpack.

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10 Moments of Beauty at the Paris Olympics

The Summer Games are known for athletic excellence, but they provide plenty of aesthetic excellence along the way.

Léon Marchand and the rest of the Olympians at the Paris Games have put on a show — in more ways than one. Credit... James Hill for The New York Times

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  • Published Aug. 9, 2024 Updated Aug. 12, 2024

Some people watch the Olympics for the events. Others watch for the hot athletes.

This is nothing new. Going all the way back to the first century, the orator Dio Chrysostom praised the “beauty” of the boxer Melankomas, who competed in the ancient Greek athletic games .

That same feeling resonates in 2024. A number of participants in the Paris Summer Olympics have distinguished themselves for things beyond their athletic talent. In an extreme case, a pole-vaulter gained a great deal of attention — some might say notoriety — for failing in a unique way. Others caught the public’s attention through moments of love or kindness — a different but equally palpable form of beauty.

There are numerous options to choose from, but here are 10 moments of beauty at the games.

Swimmers and Their Abs

A man in a black warm-up suit that says “Italia” holds both arms in the air as others stand around him.

After Italy won bronze in the 4 × 100-meter freestyle relay on July 27, the Italian swimmer Thomas Ceccon, 23, raised his arms in celebration. In doing so, he unintentionally bared his well-cut abs , which had many thirsting on the internet .

(Ceccon, who won gold in the 100-meter backstroke, was later found sleeping on the ground next to a bench in Olympic Village after he had complained about the conditions at the village.)

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